MoonAngel 0 Report post Posted December 17, 2005 What are the lies you've told or being told before in a relationship? Lies that you find to be the most unaccepatable? Can you accept lies in a relationship? And what is the borderline of your acceptance in such matter? Share your views and experiences. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WildBerry 0 Report post Posted December 18, 2005 Lie for a good cause is better than telling the whole truth sometimes... it depends on the situation also!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
knnb 0 Report post Posted December 18, 2005 Tryth Hurts,To hurt your love one?How many of us can take the truth? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cossie 0 Report post Posted December 19, 2005 Lies that you find to be the most unaccepatable? i love you Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shazzac 0 Report post Posted December 19, 2005 What you don't know, won't hurt you! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
natalie ng 0 Report post Posted December 19, 2005 i can not accept lies in a relationship unless he gives me a good reason why he lies to me at first after i find out he lies to me.'m straight forward,frank and honest. i won't lie to my bf, even i doing something at his back, but my heart would feel lo lo ruin, finally i will go and tell him what i have hide from him.. i will go zi shao.. so we trust each other very much... he won't lie to me as well...... but it is depend,white lie is acceptable... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pikachu 0 Report post Posted December 19, 2005 I actually prefer honesty. A little white lie still forgiveable. But if constantly lie (don't care if big or small), then end of the road liao~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
huakenny 0 Report post Posted December 25, 2005 I actually prefer honesty. A little white lie still forgiveable. But if constantly lie (don't care if big or small), then end of the road liao~ 1 2nd u.....agreed Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eivan120 0 Report post Posted December 27, 2005 What you don't know, won't hurt you! I do agree on this. Sometimes human just have to lie to make life easier. Most ppl called it honesty, but i believe it got an ugly side also. By being honest, u released ur guilt n created a disappointment/sadness to the 1 u're being honest with. My opinion is to weight the consequences between to lie or to be honest. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Azxel 0 Report post Posted January 6, 2006 What are the lies you've told or being told before in a relationship? Lies that you find to be the most unaccepatable? Can you accept lies in a relationship? And what is the borderline of your acceptance in such matter? Share your views and experiences. 1. I like your mom (except for one whose mom I like. Even brought her out for lunch on a motorcycle). I forgive you. I'm not angry with you. I think you look great in spandex. I don't love you anymore.2. Any lie I suppose. A relationship is supposed to be build on things like trust and honesty too.3. Unacceptable but Forgiveable. 4. It's either black or white. Grey areas in relationships aren't healthy. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
zincess 0 Report post Posted January 15, 2006 I'm a ger who always lie (sad case la. But i does find need to lie most of the time especially when u're at work place.)When i'm into my 1st relationship(and still in), I still lied a little. But when i'm serious into the relationship I did not lie at all and i expect honesty in the relationship. I dunno y ... although i lied a lot in the past, i couldn't tolerate lies in a serious relationship. I tink in a relationship... especially a serious one, the other partner should treat u as somebody (perhaps the only one) he or she can trust and open up to.I wan a partner who is honest and someone i can trust for the rest of my life. I dun wanna spend the rest of my life wondering which sentence he tells me is true and which is lie. I'd rather b single.My current partner did lie and i did forgive him but threaten to leave him if i discover anymore lies from him.If ur partners lie, it's not juz lie, it's the disappointment along with mistrust. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PenangKia78 0 Report post Posted January 15, 2006 Lies lies lies. Well to me, it really depends on how much I trust my gf lor, the more you trust someone the more a lie can dissappoint you. I do trust my gf alot cause thats what I tihnk a relationship is all about. It also depends on the subject matter of the lie, and whether it was a deliberate act. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MoonAngel 0 Report post Posted January 15, 2006 If ur partners lie, it's not juz lie, it's the disappointment along with mistrust. Agree. Those are the greatest consequences of lying, and after too many lies, it's hard to trust the person as you once did anymore... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
brat 0 Report post Posted January 18, 2006 sometimes there are things in men women wont understand and vice versa, if you reach that point i think you have to lie. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lordy 0 Report post Posted January 18, 2006 hmmm well, i would wonder why to lie if...1. There is good communication2. There is understanding...3. Both is sincere and honest Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
brat 0 Report post Posted January 18, 2006 hmmm well, i would wonder why to lie if...1. There is good communication2. There is understanding...3. Both is sincere and honest the #2 item wouldnt really be 100%. man are from mars, women are from venus. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MoonAngel 0 Report post Posted January 19, 2006 hmmm well, i would wonder why to lie if...1. There is good communication2. There is understanding...3. Both is sincere and honest Agree. But it's difficult... Not all couples can reach all 3 stages though... Just like what brat said. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lordy 0 Report post Posted January 20, 2006 hehe yeah i would agree its not easy to reach all 3 levels. But for couple that did, u would really be like "Wow" at them.. hehee Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
luvlade 0 Report post Posted September 7, 2006 no one is perfect. there will always a lil lie and huge lie... and i would be in the 1st category =P but for my recent bf, we are honest to each other! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ogazmo 0 Report post Posted September 7, 2006 why need to lie....?? if U lie U'll do something to cover up the lies u said & eventually will end up with another lie to cover the previous 1 then this will create more problem in nex time when find out. It's so simple just tell the truth y have to cover up ? if he/she love you they'll listen, lies = sin ........ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Azxel 0 Report post Posted September 8, 2006 Everyone lies. For couple to say that there are no lies in their relationship, they're only lying to themselves. The intention or rather unintention to deceive comes naturally.No offence. Just my 2 sen. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Alzier 0 Report post Posted September 8, 2006 ho hummm lie lie lie.. hmmm i lie all the time even now so come kill me. but so far never lie in any relationship... must try that one over the next blue moon. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
andrienne 0 Report post Posted September 8, 2006 i second you moo....there will always be lies in our life...not just the relationship itself. no matter how you don't like it or how you can't accept it, you can never get away from lies. i honestly hate lies a lot. i couldn't accept my partner lying to me & i will constantly remind him of what he did(ie. the lies). yes, i sound like a biatch for not being able to truly understand the meaning of forgive & forget. but tht's life. no one is perfect & i'm not one either. i do lie to him as well....although deep down in my heart, i hope for his forgiveness whenever i do so, i know it will never happen because i'm not forgiving him. what makes me better in letting him forgiving me? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jenzl 0 Report post Posted September 8, 2006 a lie is not a lie if you've found out....so...better safe-keep dat lie and never let it be found....better not to know than to be hurt because of the knowledge..so far...i havent lie yet...about my bf...i didnt know...i never know....yet....haha Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
