blueybaby

hmm...if you think you can handle long-term relationship...then go ahead but if you can't then its best to leav her now then hurt each other's feeling sooner or later knowing that its not working out. Good Luck

me...*hmm* i dun mind getting engage. But anyhow it work that way. Getting engage first then only you get married. But for me it'll probably be in like 10 years time. *haha* I have a friend who is 19 this year and she got engage last year and probably getting married in two years time

erm...when i was with my ex..i think we basically took care of each other together. Especially when either of us are sick. BUT usually in reminding stuff... would be me reminding him *hehehe*

heyz...your problem was once my problem too..*sigh* I was going out with my ex for 2 years and as for him, i was his first gf. We only knew each other for like 3 days and just 3 days..after that we got together. The first few months was marvellous but when it comes to the six month, everything went trembling down. We had arguments *something like yours* almost everyday. And i was once like you trying my best to change and rather just give in and shut my mouth. If i wasn't doing that, we would start another issue or argument. Finally, the love for each other was going to fade and we decided to end it. Just a couple of weeks ago. I know it's hard to let that someone go. some more she is your first and you love her. FOr me, ive never felt so much love compare to my other relationship and i never felt so much happy and ive changed a lot cuz of this guy. Its hard for me to let him go...but i have to try. If you think that its not going to work out, leave her. There's tons more other fishes out there in the sea. Don't think you're a bad bf. Everyone has its good side and bad side. Just remember "nobody is perfect, not even your gf" and "what's meant to be is meant to be, what is not meant to be, leave it"

hmm...spa and massage centre..is alrite. BUT when it reaches the limit where you have more than that..ill probably feel weird and i wouldnt break up that instant. Probably i would express myself how i really feel towards it but if it doesnt seem to work out......then its bye bye

To some people...love is blind so basically they dont care bout the opposite's appearence. *hmm* me.. i wouldn't change him for who he really is as in his personality but when it comes to fashion style...probably a lil but i wouldnt wanna show it or tell him off straight as it may hurt the person. Ill probably beat around the bush like, "ei...this clothes looks nice on you, why not you try it on" or "It doesnt suit you la...maybe a nicer one." hehehehe

i started dating when i was 13 but that relationship didnt work out cuz it was more towards the "girlfriend and boyfriend" title not steady nor hold hands or whatsoever. The real steady one where i got played or start getting heart-broken when i was 15. So sad *sobz*

Me?! *hmm* First ill probably forgive him cuz i guess im still in love with him *stoopid thing to do* BUT...if its out of hand and he still does not change..ill break up with him cuz it's not point being with someone who lies to you. It may hurt alot as i would probably love him...but that's the best thing i can do. I'll probably ignore him cuz if i do see or hang out with him..it'll kill me so hard to remember the past. ps: shadowprincess im not angry with you ya?! *hehe*

thanks everyone... heartbroken - yea..i guess what you said is true..time is the best medicine and im like..alwiz 24/7 with my friends. but my close one's are all in aussie ^glitter angel^ - at first i thought that i couldn't let go..i was so stubborn to do it but after crying out loud for so many days, i thought to myself that i have a whole life ahead and bsides..im not getting married so soon..*haha* thanks berlyn - i did that the last time as in grooming myself up, change my personality and even dress nicer than i usually do.. *haha* wildberry - what you said is true. "what's meant to be is meant to be, what's not just let it go" *sigh* thanks ericca - i was once like you. with this current ex too. we boke up before. ad we got back together cuz i really loved him. during the relationship he was on and off in loving me but i guess now we are like best of friends. you and i are on the same boat. its good to hear you're living life to the fullness. elle baybee & cutiesbaby312 - don't be afraid of all this..u just never know it might not happened. live life to the fullness and be happy with who you have and dont take him for granted cuz that was what happened to me the last time. so cheer up 3feetsnow - thanks! i guess what you said is true..better ending it now then later.

hie errica...nice meeting you here..im blueybaby aka astrid

hie..i just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years and it's really hard for me to let him go as i still love him. The problem is why do girls sacrifice so much for guys that sometimes they don't really appreciate it?! And when a girl falls in love with him, the next minute you know he's bye bye for you?!

hie charin...nice meeting you here..im blueybaby!! ic you're a kl party animal...hehe!! i was once like that but i gave up haha!! so where are you taking your animation course?

hehe!! its been a long time since i step in here..haha!! go to be back...how's everyone?

im back on malaysian babes after a long time...hehehe

hie joyce...wow...you're blueey and im blueybaby..hehehe!