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My current 1 is 5 years younger than me. I don't see what's the issue. When men got a much younger partner is normal but when women get a younger partner ppl make fuss about it. Even if women look older than their partner but so what?? Who set the rules that women must look younger than their partner? I'm completely comfortable of me looking older than my partner, i'm in fact older than him anyway.

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I had just broke up my boyfren age 21 im 29 last month and still missing him (sigh)

having a younger boyfren....im happy with my ex before but because of the age

and he persuing his studies the relationship ended.

It depend to the individual and situation.........

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Ya, it really depends on the situation. But gals should not limit their range of potential partner to those who are older than them. My bf and I are both in our 30's.

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Well no younger guys for me pls. There was this one younger guy I knew who had a thing for me. I thought he was matured at first then I changed my mind coz all he ever did was cry, lol.

haha lol.

y he cry anyway?

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i started to date younger guys when i was 19 and i'm 23 (JUST) and still dating younger ones =) age gap was 1-3 only =) and my very recent bf is a year younger but with great mind, he's no diff compared to any older 'age' guy =)

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For me, i can accept at most 1 year younger than me only..cuz of the maturity differences BUT i do see alot of my friends are getting attached to guys younger than them. One of my friend which is ONLY 19 (guy) got married to his wife which is older than him by 8 years! that was two years ago, and they are still looking good now..Hehe. and they married purely becuz of love, not becuz of pregnancy which i totally salute them ^^

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It seems nowadays there are more and more couples in which the guy is younger than the girl. What do you guys think?

date is fine but still i dont get attracted to guy younger than me...its like their my little bro which kinda turns me off

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QUOTE (meklin @ Jul 9 2008, 05:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
used to seeing a guy 5 yrs younger than me, dunno y feel so attracted to him because b4 this its a "NO NO" for guys who are younger than me. Am 30 (Lotso people think am 24/25 yrs ole clapping.gif - thats y he mengorat me kot)
He is 25, Furtunately he s not like a 20yrs ole boy wub.gif fuhhh...
He s the eldest in the family n his mother already passed away, maybe dats y he didnt act like guys at his age kot..



well, like me, at first i also said "NO NO" for guys who're younger than me, but now..it changed. I have the same relationship as you, a guy who is 4 years younger than me. so, u both still in the relationship?

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sure i dont mind la.. younger guys are energetic, cuter, and sexier.. kekke.. joking

hmm, i think the personality of the guy is more important, right?

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QUOTE (yinnie @ Jul 15 2008, 06:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
age is not a problem. its the mentality!!

i've encounter/seen younger guys with mature thinking and vice versa.



agree!.. my bf younger than mi a yr.. ppl mostly mistaken him as older than mi few yrs haha i look younger thou... am alwiz a baby to him tongue.gif stil strong going on 3rd yr relationship wub.gif Edited by ti@

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if a younger guy acts far more mature than his age, that's a real turn on. Some older men still act like 10 year olds. Honestly, age doesn't really matter. It's the maturity level that counts. Regardless, I don't think I'd have any problems dating younger guys. A guy with a 2-year younger difference tops. I don't want to be a sister, or worst, a baby-sitter.

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I also have a boyfriend who is almost 2 years younger than i am. we have been dating for almost 4 years and we are still happy being together. so i guess there is no problem dating a younger boy =p. As long as both love each other why bother about age ;)

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[i]Hi all.....just wondering is age a problem in a relationship?? If girl older than guy would they mind??? i know guy won't mind if girls younger than them la.....[/i]

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[quote name='davidyap' date='21 June 2010 - 03:00 AM' timestamp='1277060417' post='585262']
[i]Hi all.....just wondering is age a problem in a relationship?? If girl older than guy would they mind??? i know guy won't mind if girls younger than them la.....[/i]
[/quote]

My husband (ex-boyfriend :P) is 3 years younger than me. When he is courting me, he convinced me that age is just a number :wub:.

It was me who kept on objecting in the beginning! After a while, it really didn't matter at all! I guess it helps that I actually look younger than him!

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[quote name='sofea' date='21 June 2010 - 09:42 AM' timestamp='1277084521' post='585263']<br />My husband (ex-boyfriend <img src='http://www.malaysianbabes.net/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':P' />) is 3 years younger than me. When he is courting me, he convinced me that age is just a number <img src='http://www.malaysianbabes.net/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/wub.gif' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':wub:' />. <br /><br />It was me who kept on objecting in the beginning! After a while, it really didn't matter at all! I guess it helps that I actually look younger than him!<br />[/quote]<br /><br /><br />

so are you and him still together???

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[quote name='davidyap' date='21 June 2010 - 09:01 PM' timestamp='1277125292' post='585298']
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so are you and him still together???
[/quote]

Yes, lah! That's why I say "husband (ex-boyfriend)", he he. We have been happily married for 2 years exactly!

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[quote name='sofea' date='21 June 2010 - 10:20 PM' timestamp='1277130003' post='585301']
Yes, lah! That's why I say "husband (ex-boyfriend)", he he. We have been happily married for 2 years exactly!
[/quote]

[i]wow....that a good thing....hope you two will have many many years to come....i'm so happy for you....really..[/i]

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[quote name='davidyap' date='22 June 2010 - 03:31 AM' timestamp='1277148711' post='585316']
[i]wow....that a good thing....hope you two will have many many years to come....i'm so happy for you....really..[/i]
[/quote]

Thanks!

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[quote name='melissa.wong84' date='23 June 2010 - 04:05 PM' timestamp='1277280356' post='585386']
i guess not... my bf is 5 years younger than me.. and we've been together for almost 2 years already.. if all goes well, we'll be getting married end of this year...

is your gf older than you or do you have a crush on someone older???

just curious.
[/quote]

[i]5 years ah?? wow....unbelieveable.....actually my gf older than me lor.... just asking and see if i'm the only one or there is more people like me....[/i]

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i don't see any problem having a girlfriend older than you, as long as both parties do not have any issues about the age. the most important thing is love and chemistry between you and your partner. ;)

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[quote name='Angeline Tan' date='24 June 2010 - 11:45 AM' timestamp='1277351124' post='585426']
i don't see any problem having a girlfriend older than you, as long as both parties do not have any issues about the age. the most important thing is love and chemistry between you and your partner. ;)
[/quote]
[font="Comic Sans MS"][/font]true also lor....eventually still up to the both party lor...

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I have known 2 married couples, wives are older than husbands (3 years older). They get along fine, but I realise there is also a downside. The wives are very superior than the husbands because they are older. Just my opinion.

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[quote name='sarahlam' date='26 June 2010 - 12:15 PM' timestamp='1277525728' post='585509']
I have known 2 married couples, wives are older than husbands (3 years older). They get along fine, but I realise there is also a downside. The wives are very superior than the husbands because they are older. Just my opinion.
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[i]sarah.....my gf is not superior lor.....very loving lor but i understand what you mean so for me no down side just the thinking only la....glad you voice out.....make me feel better...[/i]

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