IceBabe

I dont mean to get married now..my intention if to start the relationship, then will think of marriage after 1-2 years relationship...as she still young may not turn into her mind yet but im about later 30's...actually she even younger....early 20's...actually both of us is working & also studying part time....By all means as what she said, timing is not right for both of us...so what can i do...wait or proceed... Somehow somewhat im getting pressure from my parents to get married...what a pity joke

Doin my MBA now...

its not bad already ur company benefits mah...why still merajuk lehh...about carrying the heavy stuff....u mah flirt a bit or wear sexy to seduce the ham sup guy to help you lorrr...

It also must related to what is your interest. I would fairly suggest you to go into pharmacist. In pharmacist line or so call medical line, you can anytime earning better than as you comment lawyer or accountant...medical line or pharmaceutical in malaysia still consider a niche market but all means the government is emphasis on the pharmaceutical sector.i always want to explore into medical line due to good earning but i dont has any medical background. About lawyer firm, how do you see the lawyer excel in our country?i personally dont has such good impression. For accountant, it is a hectic job where you are getting a profeessional certificate but with only a low paid . Unless you planning to open an own accounting firm(that will earn a big bug)...

dear all i had confess my feeling to her, but she replied timing is not right. If she wants to marry, im in her list & she said im a good boyfriend but its just the timing is not right. ITs because she jsut broke off with her bf, & she claim she is studying, change new job & also just broke off. She claim is not fair to me also if to think of this relationship. We known for abt 5 months & being hang around for 3 months(means go out together). With our on going interaction, i do feel she has good feeling with me which she also admitted the night i confess her. She said if she dont has the good feeling, she will not go out with me. She is 6 years younger than me & i planing to settle down.She is a ambitious person(as her horoscope) & would like to achieve in her career & academic...she comments to me that to be her bf is not easy, as she dont want those guy that approach to her before told her luckily they are not attached with her...i has no problem to able to lead her no matter career or academic, but will she want to settle down rather than approaching her ambitious? BEsides, i feel insecure with her which i told her & she also admit... Do you guys believe horoscope plays a role in a relationships?base on the horoscope, we are the not compatible pair in relationship which in realistic i do notice... i really feel distract & thinking of let go her..because we do hang out together & it create the chemistry feeling towards her....after the confession, i do not contact her as also she is buzy with her exam....both of us share the same interest & behaviour....but will this relationship will make out? i plan to has a relationship with 1-2 years & get married.

TS! You give a lot assumption is your own perception thinking. All i has to say is you are a gal, i believe gals are expert in giving hints or body language to guys to move ahead to court you. So do express your nature weapon to attract this guy....guy are more easy to judge compare to gals lorrr...

TS! I think you need to has a refresh in your relationship..its 10 years....why a relationship needs to stick so long for 10 years before a tie knot take place...think back why marriage is not in both of you...why another 2 years later? Secondly, a 10 years realtionship would not prompt up such a small arguement...i think u need to give this relationship a bit gap & freedom due to the 10 years trust relationship....If you keep persists this attitude, only the negative impact will occurs...

nowadays younger gal tends to attacheed elderly guy as the mature attracts them... sometimes ages does not really measure the timeline to marry or not?Is the timing is right onot!!! Eventhough a guy has car,house, stable career but the fate not appear yet, what to do...

You need to ask yourself loll....is career or your bf is more important...both also can be replace if you lost either of them...so the answer is whihc of them is you more appreciates...that only yourself will know....

If better offer & opportunity, why not?Remember opportunity not always appear in your life...learn to grab & there is no wrong human try to get best things out of their life...no matter career or love...

This is always the situation that either parties is playing guesing games. You can just give him some signal of interest. Try to be initiative to ask him out......& start the games from there lorrr.....

thats the life being work & study part time...you should aware the day u plan to take up part time study...btw, i also taking part time MBA...

First, your background shoud be in IT rite? And also you highlighted you are not interested on what you are doin now & also don't know you future objectives. You should clarifies that what do you want & impress yourself. To me, i see your 2 offer is similiar field but its jsut that different products. Generally, i would reccommend to new job. Because in my opinion, try not to stay too long in your first job. At least change 2 or 3 jobs before finalise or stable on what direction of field you are towards. This will definite broaden your knowledge skill in the market. Generally Big4 is a good company but should i say in term of audit or accounts employee. QUestion is will you strive if you join big4. What are your future after 5 years compare to your current company?This you have to analyse yourself & weight the difference. Remember a MNC or big company does not necessary give your good prospect. To me, pay come first. Then job responsibilities & company reputation. FOr your info, next monday i will start my 3rd job in my life. Before i work as production engineer, 2nd job as project engineer & the new job is as regional product engineer. In short, i have operation & production knowledge, project management skills. My new job is totally again new environment & basically towards marketing & my responsibilities increase as a regional post. Some ppl prefer to stay in a same field & becomes proffesion on that certain field or products. But to me, i always prefer to learn different skills & explore different field to be competitive & knowledgeable skills in the market. Just my humble opinion