darren23 0 Report post Posted April 4, 2008 I’m 30 years old. I am in my second marriage and I have had several other relationships. They all start the same way, a strong desire to be close and exciting sex. After a few months, the desire for sex starts to wane. After a year I desire sex maybe once a week and it goes down from there. My first marriage ended after 5 years because my wife had an affair. I can't say I blame her much. I don't want my second one to go the same way. We have been married for 2 years now, and I am having trouble maintaining once a week sex. She is very sexual and would like much more. I have also been on the pill for 13 years and I have recently (3 months ago) started taking St. Johns Wort for minor depression. I have no trouble achieving orgasm once I am aroused. How can I increase my sexual desire? Could being on the pill have an effect? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hermione 0 Report post Posted April 4, 2008 i think u need to identify where does your problem come from. job stress its the common problem.its nice to have a wife who has a high sex drive.. i only hear man complaining that the women are not interested, not them! wat pill are u taking? if u wanna know whether they really affect your performance, go ask ur doctor who prescribed u the pill. they may be able to tell u! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AdamG 0 Report post Posted April 4, 2008 (edited) Viagra my friend.I am the same way too, i used to do it 5 times a day, but too much stress has been robbing my sexual desires.PS: Where did you meet your wife???? I need a girl that wants to do it every day! Edited April 4, 2008 by AdamG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sharvyn 0 Report post Posted April 5, 2008 if it's merely psychological, get advice from psychiatrist.HUKM have one psychiatrist specialize in sex. get a referral letter from ur GP, refer to this prof. can pm me for more info. he helps dealing with this probs. do visit him together with ur wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
adam677 0 Report post Posted April 5, 2008 First I would like to say that the Pill has probably no part in this. I got a book called mensexualhealthbook.com when I was in the same condition. It's provides all information about men sexual health and with the help of this book you can have a better sex life. It really worked for me and I hope this will work out for you too. Have a great sexual life! Bye! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
