Hi, I'm Rae and I'm a new member. Just joined in a few minutes ago Nice to meet you all and thanks for those who make an effort to read this.
I've been in a relationship with my bf for 7 months. I'm 22 this year and he's 29. He is dependable, reliable and a has good job. I felt the pressure in our relationship. I have told him about this and he advised me to take things slowly and we'll make it through. He is way too far from where I am, he's successful while I'm still in my Degree.
I know everyone is different and I shouldn't compare myself with him. His success makes me realize that I can't fail in my exam, I have to get good grades in order to cope up with him. How can I ever get rid of the stress? Another problem I'm facing is that my parents doesn't agree with our relationship as they want me to concentrate in my exam. We hang out every Saturday, and now my parents are nagging me that I should have concentrated more on my studies, as I've been going out too frequently. I am eager to meet him and spend time with him.
I have always been negative minded and I have no confidence in anything. In my point of view, he's almost perfect and he should deserve someone who has the same standard as him as its almost time for him to settle down for a family. I don't have the confidence that I can provide him happiness. I felt immensely bad and guilty whenever I said or did something wrong, especially when I failed to be there for him just when he needed me the most. He had never blamed me for anything, he's always caring towards me.
Should I let go of him or should I let nature takes place?