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to all is never to late to reply ...this post maybe there is someone out there having the same problem we also might not know right .. i got on my life but hurting everytime i go ,places where went went togther ... sometimes go for lunch with her as i see her ,well as i know it hurt badly .. what to do i guess love hurts eh i think i ahve to change my temper ler maybe is tha main reason also i also don;t know .. well better temper also does not hurt me mah .. love is everything ... depends who or what it is .. it can be your car , your dag or cats , your parents , your brother , etc etc don;t have to be gf or bf thing ,maybe sometimes give some love to people that is around you will be good see ya all take care brb in 2 days i guess take care and appretiate the love given to you ...

hehhe well what i guess in a realtionship no need to regreat one, both of you have good time together right ? tyr think of this look back at your photo album when both of you are togther ,do you feel happy when you look at it .. notice something is missing ? there is no unhappy picture of both of you .. right ? why ? becouse you don't want those type of picture .. but when you want to break up all those sad picture come in your mind .. if you look back at your old picture and think a while .. i guess you wil be happy having the person you love right besode you

thanks all i have move on with my life ... admin really thank you for not deleting or maybe ban this account .. Well today iw et to see few client and i guess i will be busy for this week and maybe next . successful man .. well Admin me have not reach that state ,still in a strugle to get a BMW just abit more hopefully before mid of this year .and later on a house and all .. just letting you know i'm not that successful yet but hopefully ecnomi pick up .. Well thanks for all yoru advice really thank you .. one day if ever i meet you guys and girl i cheng you yamm chaaa To let you all know i have move on also with a broken heart but i guess i have to handle it anyway .. tomorrow bring car to workshop and spend money on it maybe it will be abit faster thanks all

hahah no ler plastic surgery is a joke to intertain myself only work well for now don;t have any space since contruction and order are low .. thanks for your advice thou really thanks

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work for me ? what you want to do ?sales ?

Today after noon i went for a hair cut those so call new thing ..bought 4 dozzen rose and so on flowers ,got to the place she work .. handed to her .. she was i would say shy and all with all the people looking at her ... i though she felt touch .. but my guess was wrong .. in my life this is the first time i done such stupid thing i would say ... well flower given ,she come out adn tell me .. she don't have felling for me anymore ... i waited till she finish work pick her up go somewhere and talk about it .. well it seems that i never give up asking for another chance if i can build the love back .. by my guess i know i can't but i willing to try and see if it works ..i know most of you thinks i'm stupid but what can i do i still love her ..if i fail to gain the love back i will leave in silence .. and too all that answer me thank you very much . I really happy with all your support , MOD keep this forum alive couse it might help alot of realtionship problem here .. Too all who answered me and pm's thank you very much ,i really need the support as this is the 3rd gf of my life .. and all also dump me ..i guess i batter go for a plastic surgery and maybe that will help .. thanks all really thanks

yes i have a job i'm a Timber Merchant ,means i import timber from neigburing country and sell them locally and to other country thanks

Well she got angry and told me that she very ahrd loh to leave her friends .i said that her friends more important then me ah ? .. she got angry we dodn;t talk the whole journey home .and at last when we talk she told me i have bad temper as she been keep this for a long time ,she also don't ahve much love felling for me anymore ,and she wants a life without me and see how it feels like .i was shock and upset holding all the pain in my heart saying to myself .. i have should not complain waiting for her that night ...i feel so regreat to argue with her .. she ignore me for few days and then last ly i ask her she say she want to break up .. i was voiceless and stone dunno waht to do take my stuff from her palce pack it up and stay with her again .. send her to work the next day ignore me pick her up ignore me sent her home ,talk to her parents about me and her and then left for KLIA runnig away carying the hurt inside ...i waited for her call but she only call me when i was aready there at the airport asking where did i go and why didn;t come abck .. i told her i'm leaving as she wish .. since she wants me to go away from her life i left .few days pass i call ehr adn she as me to come back i come back adn i didn;t tell her ...i go buy flowers and go pick her up for a surprise .. oh yes she was surprise to see me , but i don;t feel the miss and love .. today is my 3rd day here with her and she still ignore me .. i really dunno what to do ?Please all help me as i still love her a lot and deeply ,what can i do to save this realtionship ? *For your information we stay togther and still now is but kinda weird like i'm sleeping with another stranger that don;t talks to me . *Wondering why i got so much free time ?well i own my own company that don;t need me everytime to be there . *she works in a shopping mall ,so her working hours are not stable sometimes early and sometimes late . * Her work place friend with her only 3 month till today and me and her 5 years . *i hope this login and passwd won;t get ban as this is the only way i can come back and see the replay .. or you can reply me at clwee@msn.com. thanks all ,i'm so sorry i'm a guy here ,sorry mod i will not do this again

Hi ,i'm sorry i'm a male her usign my gf computer to post this as i need some advice from all the females in here .. i'm so sorry to do this .. I'm 28 ,i have a girl which is 25 now been going out togther for 5 years . So far realationship for me to see have been going fine but for her she have been keeping all problems in her heart . As for me i don't really lke going shopping and clubing ,as for her she like shopping but clubing she won't want to sometimes . what i would do is give her money and bring her shopping while i wait in MPH the whole day untill she is done .But there is one thing bad about me that is i canot handle Traffic jam so if we are cought in traffic jam i will be in a bad temper and also very unfair to her .But in my heart i don't meanto hurt her in anyway .. now she is working already so time with me spend are kinda limited ,so i will wake up early send her to work and also send her back .. the time between i will go yamm chaaa or do my own things but sometimes nothing to do i will be waiting for her 8 hours a day min till she finnish ..and evertime when she finish i would want to go dinner with her as i have not eaten anything for dinner ..but instead she would say she is tired ,not hungry.So i guess there goes my dinner .becouse before she got any friends i work place i will come to her and pick her up for dinner /lunch .everyday Recently she have bunch of friends tat working with her that she enjoy much going out with ,Karaoke,Shopping and maybe yamm chaa season .Well since she her friends there i gave her some room so that she have friends to go out dinner wih and lunch .But after that even her off day she will spend it with them no matter what i have done waiting for 8 hours a day min unless overtime more . One day she told me she want to go to Karaoke with her friend after work that is 6.30pm i let her go and gave her some money too so she will enjoy her night ,she din't even ask me weather want to go for dinner first and then she go for karaoke .. well that ime i didn't mind maybe she too excited to sped time with ehr friends ,and guess what time she finnish from karaoke 1.30am in the morning so i waited from 8.30am in the morning when i send her to work and then till 1.30am in the morning again so i can send her home ..i got anry and told her that it is very late and i', tired ,next time if you want to go can but plese if possible leave early . well that settle and then the off day came .. and again she went out with ehr friends while i have nothing to do but wait till she come back ,i just ask how was your day she was happy so ,i guess i was happy too to see her .. the following week come karaoke season again .. well i was confuse to let her go or not but then at last i let her go again .Like usual i gave money and ask her to enjoy herself ,i send her to work at 8.20am again that day and told her to call me when her work finnish at 6.30pm and hoping that i can see her and go dinner with her becfore she head off to karaoke ,she did call i was happy to see her number appear so i answer in a happy voice .. Yes dear finish work ? and she said to me Dear i going to 1 Utama with my friends for dinner and shopping ok ,later i give you a call back once i'm done with karaoke ...i was voiceless ..and said oh liek that ah .. nvm you go lah got money or not ? she say have then she hang up .. well there goes my dinner alone and i call frinds around and found out all got their things to do ..so i went to a coffee shop wated 8 hours already the whole day and waited another 7 hours more ,hoping she got think of me while i'm waiting outside the karaoke .. yes true enought 11.pm she call i was so happy i though we are going home but instead .. dear can i go home a 1.30am you come pick me up lah at 1.30am later ok .. as for me i said ok loh happily but trully hurt inside of me .. 1.30am i pick her up i was dirty,tired,hungry clueless what i have to do already waiting for 17 hours for her doing nearly nothing the whole day ,she was happy and all .. while my face can;t even smile ..i told her that why she didn;t evenc all me for dinner before karaoke and all ,and why so long .. do you know ive been waiting for you outside ?? for 17 hours today ?and everyday i ahev to wait for you 8 hours min and you didn;t even ask me out for dinner as you know i will wait for you for dinner

hi,how just talking about ZARA n MNG only ?heheheh but i also like ZARA n MNG leh