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I'm very much in love with my BF for 2 years. We've been going out and recently 6 months back we had sex! Its been awhile now we're doing it every weekend and a month back he started to take videos and photos of our intimate moments in bed.

Are there any others out there that also let your BF/GF take videos and photos or you naked and doing sex acts? I really love him and I don't mind if he takes and keep to watch it himself or show his friends (without sending). I'm just scared that it will leak out? Have anyone done this and the videos and photos got leak out?

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It is not advisable to take pics or record the session even for fun........When in love everything is forgotten but when the relationship becomes brittle and you part ways, there is a danger that these will be leaked in anger or revenge........Then when you have a new relationship, these will haunt you if it gets released. Also, blackmail is also a possibility......You will never sleep in peace after that..Best do not leave any evidence........:)

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[quote name='joann3' date='13 September 2010 - 12:21 PM' timestamp='1284351672' post='588590']
I'm very much in love with my BF for 2 years. We've been going out and recently 6 months back we had sex! Its been awhile now we're doing it every weekend and a month back he started to take videos and photos of our intimate moments in bed.

Are there any others out there that also let your BF/GF take videos and photos or you naked and doing sex acts? I really love him and I don't mind if he takes and keep to watch it himself or show his friends (without sending). I'm just scared that it will leak out? Have anyone done this and the videos and photos got leak out?
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[b]you are going to be the next porn star and everyone in Malaysia will know......trust me...[/b]

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It may be leaked out by other people . If it's on his phone or laptop, it's too easy to transfer the files esp if someone borrows/repairs his gadgets. Look what happened to the girls who slept w Edison Chen.

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Oh my! Am I like the only girl here that allow such videos and photos to be taken? You girls have never tried before or have never done it?

Now I think I'm such low class as it seem only I do it... But my BF have agreed that he doesn't send it out and I kind of trusted him. Now you all say I feel quite scared.

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Hi,<br>Please do not downgrade yourself. Being intimate is your choice. Nevertheless, the readers have given good reasons not to take pics. Even if there is no intention to circulate, events can happen; such as losing your your thumb drive, phone or even sending your pc, phone for repairs. It is in your best interest the readers have advised you. Once leaked, it will spread like a wild fire. So best just delete everything it is safer that way.<br>
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High risk, Joann3. There can be no guarantees in life, please be careful. My suggestion is to insists that he deletes all of the photos in front of you or you do it.

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[quote name='joann3' date='13 September 2010 - 12:21 PM' timestamp='1284351672' post='588590']
 I really love him and I don't mind if he takes and keep to watch it himself or show his friends (without sending). [/quote]

Are you truly ok with having his friends see you naked and involved in a sex act??? I mean wouldn't you feel very awkward if you met them later on knowing that they have seen you naked? Thats very naughty but very risky too!













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[quote name='davidyap' date='15 September 2010 - 12:24 AM' timestamp='1284481463' post='588629']
[b]you are going to be the next porn star and everyone in Malaysia will know......trust me...[/b]
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Strongly agree!!

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[quote name='subwolf' date='18 September 2010 - 01:54 AM' timestamp='1284746095' post='588694']
Are you truly ok with having his friends see you naked and involved in a sex act??? I mean wouldn't you feel very awkward if you met them later on knowing that they have seen you naked? Thats very naughty but very risky too![/quote]

i didn't mind because he share not by sending. he let them watch on his phone. when i meet them i feel a little awkward but after so long i'm ok already.

i know what all of you are saying about being leaked but we've taken a lot of videos already. i think maybe from now i'll just try to let him take less.

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My girlfriend allowed me make captures of these intimate moments and i used it mainly for my "private" moments when she is not around.

She was against this idea totally, i was too but sometimes a guy needs to do what a guy does and i don't want to resort to porn to visualize something erotic because i think that is a form of cheating and if my girlfriend finds out, it would be very hurtful to her as i heard stories about girlfriends feeling low i self confidence because they think they boyfriend find them not appealing.

I don't want that.

I talked to her about it and she is being very understanding though we don't record much. Everytime we if did make a record, we would watch it together and i love to tease her and she'll hide under the comforter.

I have pendrive which i used to store records and i never bring them out, i put it in the same locker i kept my saving books and all other important things. After that dumb Edison pandemic broke out, i became extremely cautious while handing it.

I would have my girlfriend sat next to me while i transfer them to the pendrive and i make sure that i am disconnected entirely from the internet during the transfer. I gave her the spare key to the locker while i kept one. This is to make sure that my girlfriend doesn't get too worried about me being reckless in handling the matter.

I don't view the videos on the computer as well, i bought a USB supported player especially for that purpose.

In my view, intimiate videos are fine but one must be very careful in handling it. Imagine it as a nuclear device, every small little detail must be taken into account and if there is the slightest that the records might get leaked out, eliminate it no matter how small it is. To be honest, i believed prior to the Edison epidemic, many couples took such records as well but nobody bothered. Just because Edison set a precedent, everybody is just following the trend.

Regarding the boyfriend showing his friend those intimate videos without transfering, it is a strict no no. There is a reason it is called an "INTIMATE" video. If it is meant to be public view, YouTube would have tonnes of it. You must understand that your body remains exclusively to your boyfriend's eyes only and no more. Letting another know of the existence would spark controversy. Your boyfriend's friend might steal your boyfriend's phone and make copies of it without your boyfriend's knowledge and if that friend was reckless in handling the material and it gets leak out, it will be the end for both you and him.

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Sorry to say this.. but dun be stupid! No matter how much u love him, you shouldn't do this. Well, if he really wants to film it.. make sure your face is covered.. somehow..

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Girls... girls... girls... Care to cherish yourself only for your husband please. You want to live until your 60ties right... or even over it... there are long time to go. Your private body is only for you and shared it once married. Please take a good care of yourself girls.....

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Totally disagree with it. I believe intimate moments are for our very own eyes. Not viewing through electronic devices.

And it is dangerous too! What if it leaked out? There is always a possibility. In my own case, my bf supported 100% that we should not been taking any intimate videos/pictures etc. Such moments are just for us and it is private.

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First of all, if you allow his friends to watch means you have no problem in other people watching it too. I would say, if you don't wanna live in fear like this, don't do it in the first place. He is just your bf, not even your husband, imagine if his phone got stolen one day, there is no way you can retrieve the video. Think wisely!

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[quote name='shani' date='27 September 2010 - 12:37 PM' timestamp='1285562235' post='588805']
My girlfriend allowed me make captures of these intimate moments and i used it mainly for my "private" moments when she is not around.

She was against this idea totally, i was too but sometimes a guy needs to do what a guy does and i don't want to resort to porn to visualize something erotic because i think that is a form of cheating and if my girlfriend finds out, it would be very hurtful to her as i heard stories about girlfriends feeling low i self confidence because they think they boyfriend find them not appealing.

I don't want that.

I talked to her about it and she is being very understanding though we don't record much. Everytime we if did make a record, we would watch it together and i love to tease her and she'll hide under the comforter.

I have pendrive which i used to store records and i never bring them out, i put it in the same locker i kept my saving books and all other important things. After that dumb Edison pandemic broke out, i became extremely cautious while handing it.

I would have my girlfriend sat next to me while i transfer them to the pendrive and i make sure that i am disconnected entirely from the internet during the transfer. I gave her the spare key to the locker while i kept one. This is to make sure that my girlfriend doesn't get too worried about me being reckless in handling the matter.

I don't view the videos on the computer as well, i bought a USB supported player especially for that purpose.

In my view, intimiate videos are fine but one must be very careful in handling it. Imagine it as a nuclear device, every small little detail must be taken into account and if there is the slightest that the records might get leaked out, eliminate it no matter how small it is. To be honest, i believed prior to the Edison epidemic, many couples took such records as well but nobody bothered. Just because Edison set a precedent, everybody is just following the trend.

Regarding the boyfriend showing his friend those intimate videos without transfering, it is a strict no no. There is a reason it is called an "INTIMATE" video. If it is meant to be public view, YouTube would have tonnes of it. You must understand that your body remains exclusively to your boyfriend's eyes only and no more. Letting another know of the existence would spark controversy. Your boyfriend's friend might steal your boyfriend's phone and make copies of it without your boyfriend's knowledge and if that friend was reckless in handling the material and it gets leak out, it will be the end for both you and him.
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What if someone breaks into your house and took your stuff together with your "special pendrive"? You will be the next [font=arial, sans-serif][size=2][i]Edison Chen...[/i][/size][/font]

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[quote name='Yuki Bear' timestamp='1296065272' post='592378']
What if someone breaks into your house and took your stuff together with your "special pendrive"? You will be the next [font="arial, sans-serif"][size="2"][i]Edison Chen...[/i][/size][/font]
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quite agree...well, nothing is safe, it might affect your future...intimate moments are best kept private...even if ur bf says he will not share it, there is high possibility that guys will not be trusted..look at the sheer amount of S3x tapes out in the Net especially in the amateur sites..what if ur guy pals from college/workplace sees it or ur boss or lecturer sees it? what would you feel?

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totally NO!!! don't u learn from edison chen stories??!!!! gal u better be careful coz men can sweet talk u to do anything and after that dump u!!!!...learn from this video..and wake up!!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rd26SB7utoU&feature=youtu.be

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Anyway is kinky to take pict while make luv huhuhuhu i've try it, and then we look at the video and picture.
After that, we getting horny again... n make love again.... huhuhuhu

The end of the day we delete the pict and video, coz it's expired already huhuhuhu..... new recorded means hot n steamy..... Edited by Mr G

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