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Dear Babe, u still young & he has no right to put u in suffer... just leaving him behind if u wan to... enjoy ur life well... :)

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poor girl...i seen my guys friends threatening and harrassing his ex-gf (also my friend) before eventhough we ask him to stop doing it, he wont listen and keep threatens her...he wont do much, all he want is threaten her so she will be with him.

if he really do it (maybe he psycho) also is not your problem...one of my friend married a guy out of pity and scare he will suicide..in her wedding photo..there is no smile (more to force smile)..in this situation think of yourself...choices are hard to made, make the choices that make you happy..

everybody face difficult decison before, we grow as we do, that is why you might think why some of the forumers ask you to leave and dont care about about him because they might been through and make more decision that make them happy now..that is why they say this..

but still the decision is still at your hand, i hope the best for you..

** do update us how are you doing now k....

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Maybe its just me being evil and cruel but if a guy threaten to commit suicide I'll just tell him Go ahead no one cares except your parents. Go die and don't be another pest for the poor girls out there that you will hurt even more if u are alive.

Btw it seems a trend to dig out old posting ehhh so i guess everyone is having a good relationship these days. Good for all of you :)

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@babybb,

I registered to this forum just to reply u....since I happen to have d same case but I play d part of your bf....

Let me tell u this. At first, ur bf may be more of authoritative person and may also easily get jealous. Such person may not feel very happy when you as his gf is more social then he is. In other words, he does not prefer you to mix with friends too often. But I cannot blame u on this part....probably he does not have much of activity to come up with that makes u wanna do it with him rather than your friends. In my case I m busy with work even during weekends. If your bf is like me then he expects u to understand him, n be beside him...u might not need to do anything but just be beside him, or rather stand by for him. Though he may like it....it may bore u to death coz u r d type to socialise..more outgoing person if I may say. [b]So here's d incompatibility here.[/b]

Even if u go out with friends often and he does not favour it....he still can accept...but u crossed d line when u start to lie to him...although u did nothing to wrong him...not betray him or anything...but men look at is a different way...we think further...now u start to lie just to be with friends..."what if" one day u start to lie over more serious things? Humans are like this...u start to lie....if he didn't find out....u succeed, u feel happy...and thinks u can do it again....then its again n again n again.....so when he found out....about ur lies....the trust you both have established for d past so many years goes down d drain. [b]Trust is no more there.
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Now...here's the stage of no return. Because of the 2 paragraph above that I explained, he now no longer able to rest easy whenever u go out with friends.....and question mark always appears in his mind whenever u r not with him...what ure doing...where u went...etc. even though u told him....can he trust u? Everything becomes a problem when trust is broken.

For my case....my 11 years relationship went down d drain just like that. I hope u can still mend yours :)

You may not admit its your wrongdoing....but nobody is right or wrong here...

He may be a control freak...but u both can sit down discuss and come to an arrangement where both is ok with it...but u go n break d trust.....and now everything becomes difficult coz d trust is no more there. Love is never a problem for my case...but when trust is no longer there....d relationship does not work anymore coz this trust thing...once broken, hard to build back.

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