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I'm in serious dilemma, HELP.

I've got sensitive breast (not the normal before period ones) and period is delayed. But I took pregnancy test and it's negative. I was pregnant before but I had an abortion, and I swore never to return to that place ever again. Period was delayed two weeks!!!!!!!!!!!

I had unsafe sex but it was during my period. After that, its always with condom. Is it possible that I'm pregnant again ? I really don't want to kill an unborn child again, cried a river, and watching shows that involves abortion no longer felt the same.

My friends told me not to worry, as it can be due to stress, as I was really stressed up since 2 months ago, due to assignment overload. Exams are coming.

But from what I read online, though home pregnancy test could show negative, but it might not be 100% accurate. Best is to do a blood test.

Anyone knows the % of me being pregnant?

I know it's solely my fault, but I really never intended it to happen, and I just couldn't let my boy down without sex. He did tried controlling his urges (especially after the traumatic abortion experience) , but seeing him wank while watching porn and yet not approach me, I felt horrible, and hence I give in once in a while but not as often as before.

sigh, are there any other reason why I have stiff breast and delayed period?

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When my period delayed for 2 weeks and having stiff breasts then i took urine test and showed -ve.

After a month, another test, -ve oso. 2months delayed, urine test also -ve. The 3 pregnancy kits are different brands.

Finally, i did blood test and showed i was 10 weeks pregnant already.

So, better do blood test if u really suspect u are pregnant.

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even if I used the same test for my first pregnancy(that proved that I'm pregnant, got abortion) , the same brand and pregnancy might not be accurate also ?

thanks for your advice.

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Having sex during period?...hmm..sometimes, mother nature do lied...we do can get pregnant when having sex during our period. When last do you have this intercourse?...missing period about 2 weeks is quite early, but, when did you do the test with the kit?...try to do it on the first urine in the morning because this urine is quite concentrated, maybe the kit might be able to detect the HCG hormone (indicator of pregnancy)...If it's still negative, chances are 90% not pregnant...:)...try buying the most expensive kit as it is more sensitive if you dont want to go and get your blood check...:)...Good luck!!!

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i tried the kit 2-3 days ago, waiting for this coming week to test another time. If it's still negative, I guess I'll go do blood test.

Sigh, there's difference between stiff pain for period, and a different one for pregnancy. Pregnant that time the breast looks bigger, more like cause it's bigger, and the whole breast is really firm and nipples very sensitive.

The last time I had was last week I think. but so far all with condoms. Only had unsafe sex during period.

sigh.

Cause I was pregnant once, thats why I can differentiate a pms breast and a pregnant one :'(

really really hope I'm not pregnant. How to prevent pregnancy the safest way other than condom ? I tried morning after pill before, it didn't work for me, hence my first pregnancy.

any other suggestion?

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i don't want the birth control pills where they stop the period also, heard that it's deadly.

are there like spermicide or some device that is detach on our body to prevent pregnancy ?

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hoho...there is not much differences between a PMS pain and a pregnancy pain, it almost felt like the same right?...pregnancy pain felt almost like menstrual pain because it both caused by contraction of the uterine muscle, well in pregnany case is because the uterus is expanding in size to accomodate the baby...:(...U must be so worried right now...Ok, this time the test...do it on the first urine in the morning...if it's still negative, rest your worried a bit, and go get your blood check...

Well, I'm not a doctor, but studied human physiology before, the best way to prevent pregnancy, is always by wearing a protection, some condom contain spermicidal gel which can instantly kill the sperm once ejaculated...this is the safest condom, well, in case the condom is leaking...

Anyway, should worry about this prevention later, right now, it is best to know if you really are pregnant...I understand how worry you are right now:)...been in your place before...:)....

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unprotected sex during period will also lead to pregnant~! sperms can survive a fewdays in your body~!

even ejaculate on body also got 1:10000 chance to pregnant

if you don't wish to abort again you should at least opt for the protected sex and use the internet to obtain more information

like what the others had said... it could be stress that delayed your period

best is still visit a doctor and conduct a blood test ...

if this is just a false alarm~! hope you learnt your lesson and ...... whatever

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bluerubies, I don't know, maybe for u it's the same but it's different for me, cause I was pregnant before, and usually my period also the symptoms is on the breast, that's why I can tell if its the "worrying" sensitive breast or "monthly" breast pain.

during my period,my breast have stinging sensation when pressed,but when I was pregnant the first time, it was swollen..like now! :'(

yeah, its really worrying, and the thought of going through abortion is even worst. sigh, u were in my shoes before?

spiritdust, but before the sperm enter our system, the period blood won't "flush" it away ? had it during my first 2 days of period, whereby the period is at its "heaviest" stage.

anyway, I just bought new pregnancy test, going to test tomorrow morning....will update u all the good or the bad news :)

thanks for all the advice and opinions.

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yup...was in your shoes before...its been 3 years already...

sperm can live up in your body up to 7 days, some might have been flushed out, but...there might be some survive all the obstacles...:P...(these are the one having strong tails to swim...hihi)...dun worry...prepare for anything to come eh...:)...If its positive...there are a lot other options other than abortion...

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hmmmm...

I did the pregnancy test today again, and it's again NEGATIVE!!

but my breast is swollen.

ahhh, don't tell me I needa do blood test. sigh.

scared of pins and needles.

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i think you are not pregnant..which test strip did you use? is it the thin strip (like a paper wrapped in white plastic) which is the most expensive?...because they use the same in hospitals and clinics...and this is the most sensitive strip ever...(according to this O&G physician whom once check on me)...so, its negative than it is negative...dun worry:)

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Just go and get your blood tested. Period. Will save you from endless worrying.

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bluerubies, yeap!

I bought the most expensive one, they say greater than 99% accuracy and they say u can use it even on the first day u miss ur period.

Teff,

nola, hard to find a proper doctor also, so many fake doctors + my uncle is a doctor, it's going to be scary if I get caught cause I somemore went to his house functions, plus all the doctor's gathering so on so forth. lol. plus that exact same home pregnancy kit was accurate for me the first time I used it (diagnosed that I'm pregnant), don't know why its somewhat isn't accurate right now, or it is, just that I'm paranoid that my breast is swollen!

anyways, despite all those, yeah,

going to find a proper doctor with no strings attached to my uncle with my bf during study leave (next week) to do blood test! sigh.

or should I do another pregnancy test again. lol.

anyway, thanks for the replies :-)

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There is a good doc in Subang SS15. Dr. Ooi, nice lady. I guess she can help! Can't remember the clinic's name but is located in SS15, nearby inti college. Same row as Mc.Donald.

Better get professional help instead of guessing ard :)

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Well.. dun woli too much.. the more u woli the late ur period will come.. I mean i havent come my period for 4 month & when i went to see a doctor she told me its because some hormon & stress problem so make my period late come.. beside i very seldom drink water, eat fruits & vege so tats y lo..

I sure u're not pregnant dun woli too much.. beside delayed period & sore breasts i sure if u're pregnant the symptoms will not just tat.. how abt another symptoms such as morning sickness.. vomiting.. etc.. if doesnt hv den i tink u're not pregnant.

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ur nt preg la..i tried many times wit preg test kit & its accurate. whn im nt preg it say negativ,til tis yr cny my period delayed1mnth & i gt preg it reli shows!nw i hv a bb gal which is 2 mnths old.

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Hey.. i need help too.

I think im in the same situation as you 'helovesme'..

So now i need your help, would you please private msg me?

I missed my period for 2 months.. 2 weeks ago i took pregnancy test and it says negative.

I dont usually have a so long delay.. thats why im very worried now.

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Gals, never think that a negative pregnancy test means ur not pregnant, sometimes this stuff never work properly. If you are worried, go to any gynea clinic n get a scan on your womb, that's the best way to be sure. Bout blood test, is there such test to confirm you're pregnant? I did blood test when i was pregnant, but it was not to confirm my pregnancy, just to make sure i'm free from any disease or that kind of stuff. Make sure what you are doing!

Also, never practise unsafe sex. Even though you might only have sex wit the same guy, you might contract diseases which you would not know. Plus, that guys is not even your hubby, which means you might end up marying another man, and pass on the disease to the most important man in your life! Think about it, you can have sex, but please wear condom!

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I'm in serious dilemma, HELP.

I've got sensitive breast (not the normal before period ones) and period is delayed. But I took pregnancy test and it's negative. I was pregnant before but I had an abortion, and I swore never to return to that place ever again. Period was delayed two weeks!!!!!!!!!!!

I had unsafe sex but it was during my period. After that, its always with condom. Is it possible that I'm pregnant again ? I really don't want to kill an unborn child again, cried a river, and watching shows that involves abortion no longer felt the same.

My friends told me not to worry, as it can be due to stress, as I was really stressed up since 2 months ago, due to assignment overload. Exams are coming.

But from what I read online, though home pregnancy test could show negative, but it might not be 100% accurate. Best is to do a blood test.

Anyone knows the % of me being pregnant?

I know it's solely my fault, but I really never intended it to happen, and I just couldn't let my boy down without sex. He did tried controlling his urges (especially after the traumatic abortion experience) , but seeing him wank while watching porn and yet not approach me, I felt horrible, and hence I give in once in a while but not as often as before.

sigh, are there any other reason why I have stiff breast and delayed period?

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'helovesme', I need HELP. I've read in the forum that you had an abortion. You see, I am pregnant right now but not married to my bf,plus we were not mentally and financially ready. I need an abortion. I'm still studying, same as you. I really need your help 'helovesme'.

Can you tell me how did you go for an abortion?? Please HELP..

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