KeiRa 0 Report post Posted January 2, 2008 hey gals and guys!i've just had a spring cleaning and while rearranging things in my wardrobe, i saw this box full of my ex's stuff and gifts.well, i'm just curious what to do wit the box.what do you guys do wit it? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Venni Vetti Vecci 0 Report post Posted January 2, 2008 Throw it away. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
#ChRiS# 0 Report post Posted January 2, 2008 Throw it away.Same here... What's the point of keeping it? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lois_lane 0 Report post Posted January 2, 2008 how if some of the gifts are expensive one?like jewelleries?im currently still having few of my ex's stuff.god think must be wrong doing redi.but how can i just throw it?its valuable.not the memories,the price. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sam 0 Report post Posted January 2, 2008 Throw it away or if you wanna do someone good - Donate it to charity. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mizzroyalbrat 0 Report post Posted January 2, 2008 (edited) keep it. cause it has all ure memories innit, although u're very over him already, but hye, still keep it.it may bring a smile on ure lips one day =) Edited January 2, 2008 by mizzroyalbrat Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kelly C 0 Report post Posted January 3, 2008 if the stuffs are valueable, eg: handphone or jewelery then better go trade it in n get some cash!! hahahahha Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JINEIL2EN 0 Report post Posted January 3, 2008 keep it....it once part of ur life..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
preppyrose 0 Report post Posted January 3, 2008 moneytary valuables - keep them, wasting is badsentimental valuables - throw it away. but if u do intend to keep it for ur next generation to "discover" keep it in the attic! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Venni Vetti Vecci 0 Report post Posted January 3, 2008 For me even if it were jewellery or something valuable, id get rid of it. Keeping anything to do with an EX just isnt right (for me) , and if ur in a relationship and ur current found out that the necklace or ring u have was from an EX... how do u think he/she would feel? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JINEIL2EN 0 Report post Posted January 3, 2008 For me even if it were jewellery or something valuable, id get rid of it. Keeping anything to do with an EX just isnt right (for me) , and if ur in a relationship and ur current found out that the necklace or ring u have was from an EX... how do u think he/she would feel? ....is this called:"....Heartless......."...??? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pussycatt11 0 Report post Posted January 3, 2008 I never throw out any of the gifts my exes have given me. To me...I should keep them for memories sake.Although exes are exes for a reason,I cannot deny the fact that we did have a good time while it lasted. So.....I'd rather remember the good than the bad. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
caridee 0 Report post Posted January 3, 2008 i hav returned all the gifts to him once we broke up...and vice versa...i dun keep it although there's a valuable gift... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lois_lane 0 Report post Posted January 3, 2008 For me even if it were jewellery or something valuable, id get rid of it. Keeping anything to do with an EX just isnt right (for me) , and if ur in a relationship and ur current found out that the necklace or ring u have was from an EX... how do u think he/she would feel?ya laar...if im in his shoes,i wont be sad,but i will be MAD. now i understand redi!and my actions gonna be...see belowif the stuffs are valueable, eg: handphone or jewelery then better go trade it in n get some cash!! hahahahha yes im goin to sell it off!LOL! Ka-ching!Got some money!No offense other people ya! As this is my personal choice!Nothing to do with principles or any stands! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
heartbroken 0 Report post Posted January 3, 2008 ll jus keep it..as the things belong to me... past is past n i m sure there is something worth keeping there! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WendyBlue 0 Report post Posted January 3, 2008 I would say, If it's valuable and expensive, I'll keep it.If something can be consume or use, I'll finish it.If nothing special (birthday card, or anything that's useless) then I'll throw it away. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BananaEagle 0 Report post Posted January 3, 2008 (edited) Agree with Wendy.Although depending on how the r/s turned out, I might keep some things for sentimetality's sake. Not much, just one or two. Edited January 3, 2008 by BananaEagle Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JINEIL2EN 0 Report post Posted January 4, 2008 I never throw out any of the gifts my exes have given me. To me...I should keep them for memories sake.Although exes are exes for a reason,I cannot deny the fact that we did have a good time while it lasted. So.....I'd rather remember the good than the bad.what a very nice ladies.......very sweet... i love it... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yanny 0 Report post Posted January 5, 2008 just keep it as a memories... nice nice memories~^^ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Joukowski 0 Report post Posted January 5, 2008 I say keep the stuff if it means something to you. You dun have to tell you current bf this and that expensive gift was from my ex-bf. C'mon lar, weren't you supposed to also have a life before meeting him? i'm sure your ex would also have given you apart of his life which is memorable that you can treasure & it doesn't mean having a memory makes you appreciate your current bf less.ok my thoughts only. i don't have an ex- maybe because i was afraid of rejection, i quickly married my first gf. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lois_lane 0 Report post Posted January 5, 2008 it was not that i want to say my honey is the most perfect amongst all my ex's,infact its true,most of my ex's are all piece of shit...so i think it is not appropriate for me to keep their belongings,plus really embarrassed to say ; my ex's gimme plenty of gifts on certain purposes....i was stupid back then,but now No-More!i grow up n become a better thinking person.sorry ah off topic!by the way i sold 2 of the jeweleries gave to me by my ex's!and i manage to get rm398 for the 2!yay! aiyyoo im so evil ah?its only for me,others,can stand on ur own words... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sassychick 0 Report post Posted January 5, 2008 In my opinion, certain rules apply, 1. His valuables (iPod,watch,Blackberry,laptop etc) should be returned.2. Items of sentimental values to him (his favourite t-shirt, soccer jersey,mug,CDs) should also be returned.3. Gifts from him, depending on how you feel about him, you could either keep it as momentos or get rid of them. (Note: do not return to him irregardless of who ended the relationship, its simply rude. Dispose of it quietly, however tempting a dramatic 'throw in your face' scene is.) 4. If present, engagement ring should be returned, especially if its a family heirloom.5. The rest of it (his toothbrush, toothpaste, razor, shaving cream etc) can be disposed of. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites