Ray 0 Report post Posted January 28, 2005 the problem with guys is that.... i guess they are easily jealous and stuff..... eg. me... ahahahah... well, my ex has a new bf... and i kinda got really affected by it though... emotionally... but i didn't do anything to my ex la.... didn't tok much to her too... hope by that way... i'll feel better la.... i guess... i juz broke up wid her like... less than 2 months though... so.. it really hurts lor Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
babylicious 0 Report post Posted January 28, 2005 hmmmmm...i guess it works dis way......whenever a person hu asks the breakup first.....some may accept it and will try to be friends....but some might feel hurt and would feel awkward if suddenly become friends after such bonding lerr.......so the person might not wanna be friends at all...the fact that they dowanna be friends also is becos they dowanna remember anything dat might hurt them......and especially knowing dat ur ex edi move on with another partner, dats gonna hurt alot especially those hu are totally in love with the person before........hmmmm....so cant exactly say those ppl hu dowanna be friends with their ex are bad ppl....its just their feelings and like WB says, its a matter on how they can handle the situation...if u can handle the situation, everything will be orait....eventually....and yes, time will tell and heal everything...aite! smiles! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shir|eY 0 Report post Posted January 28, 2005 wow~~~ thts really got many gd replies on this topic....welll... i can be fren with every my ex... coz i think in front of them.. i am okie la... coz thing past already.. just become a memory lo..i still remember.. got 1 we just broke up not very long then he bring his new gf come to find me... wow!~~ thts really hurt man... cannot show out u r sad... still wan to smile in front of them..... just onli when alone at nite then cry alone... so pity sia~~~~ but i still wish them will get their happiness la... but reallly cherish our frenship la!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yanyan 0 Report post Posted January 28, 2005 can I say no?? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shir|eY 0 Report post Posted January 29, 2005 yanyan`~ yeahh~ y not?? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cecilia 0 Report post Posted January 29, 2005 i tried to keep in touch wif my 3rd ex but he seems not interested like tat.. coz i juz wanna noe how he's doing.. so, since he duwan to reply or anything... i juz dun care lor..about da 2nd ex, i dun really wanna c him at all... about da 1st ex, lost contact Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
heartbroken 0 Report post Posted January 29, 2005 nvmla cecilia he dun seem wana contact u mai dun chioi him lo..tis type of ppl cannot want Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TommyBoy 0 Report post Posted January 30, 2005 My ex ar...now I become her big bro oledi haha. Any problem she come to me, but no feel liao, only got feel as brother and sister Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shir|eY 0 Report post Posted January 30, 2005 for me... i still got contact with my ex la... just seldom come out meet already lo.... i will call them when their birthday also.... buttt..... sighh... just go repair my hp... format all the data inside... all da phone num also del..... just waiting for ppl call me ... LOL!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kate_xin 0 Report post Posted January 31, 2005 :huh:my ans is yes,still can b fren....thk of it..2 person tht ever shared such a gud memory n time 2gether end up being strangers??bt it oso depends laa,on hw the couple end up...bt ntg is greater den 4givness lor...cos hating sm1 o ignoring sm1 tht u loved b4 doesnt feel veri gud n it's a pain 2 the heart... depend on the guy oso..sm guys r jz so ego tht thy cant afford 2 'lose their face' n b frens back wif their x....hmmm.....^^ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shir|eY 0 Report post Posted January 31, 2005 yalo.. but if dun have luv already... then hate also dun have liao lo... coz luv n hate is together one ...... well forgive sumone is very hard.. but when u really accept n forgive someone.. u will feel happy 2! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kate_xin 0 Report post Posted January 31, 2005 yalo.. but if dun have luv already... then hate also dun have liao lo... coz luv n hate is together one ...... well forgive sumone is very hard.. but when u really accept n forgive someone.. u will feel happy 2! ya,rite~!!! happy happy happy~~~ ^^ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shir|eY 0 Report post Posted January 31, 2005 there r nothing happy than forgiveness.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cecilia 0 Report post Posted January 31, 2005 haha.. heartbroken.. then should i be glad tat v broke up? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NoodleTooth 0 Report post Posted January 31, 2005 According to my past experience, no man or woman that I've ever been with has been tolerable after we've broken up. Well, one girl's an exception. We still talk on MSN from time to time. Very nice girl, that one. But the guys... gawd, I wish to never see them again. Maybe guy#1, but not the rest. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kate_xin 0 Report post Posted February 1, 2005 so,if every1 can 4giv n oso must 4get,den i m sure every1 can b frens again wif their xs.....bt of cos,tht's oni my view laarrrr....^^ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kate_xin 0 Report post Posted February 1, 2005 as 4 me..i do still keep in touch..smtimes we even go out 4 a drink o supper..bt of cos,nt oni the 2 of us lar..wif few frens...cos i jz don c y i shudnt do so...even current bf doesnt rili like it bt y he still keep his x's num leh??hahahaz.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kate_xin 0 Report post Posted February 1, 2005 My ex ar...now I become her big bro oledi haha. Any problem she come to me, but no feel liao, only got feel as brother and sister eh?lots of ppl oso like tht hor?bcome sis n bro in the end..nt bad.....^^ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
heartbroken 0 Report post Posted February 1, 2005 haha.. heartbroken.. then should i be glad tat v broke up? yup of ocs..go n get a better wan hehe..long time din chat with u edi...how is it a?edi get over him?u said u wil tell me when u really let go wan woh..y no news le? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WildBerry 0 Report post Posted February 1, 2005 wah.. become bro and sis?not for me.. feel so akward.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
heartbroken 0 Report post Posted February 1, 2005 act i think those who can b friend back is those who really had let go d relationship..if u still love each other or still hav feel for one party that is a bit hard locos if u become friend back-it means hoping for something to happen ma (get wat i mean a) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TommyBoy 0 Report post Posted February 1, 2005 Just like last time, except no feel, plus no dates, no intention of marrying onli. Less commitment to each other, just like brother and sister living apart in real life.Not that we had any. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WildBerry 0 Report post Posted February 1, 2005 wow.. good for you.. but i cant.. its a bit.. weird for me Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WildBerry 0 Report post Posted February 1, 2005 yeah i get what you mean but to me.. i cant be those good friend type with my ex lor.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TommyBoy 0 Report post Posted February 1, 2005 If I dont do that I feel guilty coz her parents aready treat me like their son....they wanted me to take care of their daughter 4 me but there were problems...so have to take care this way lor... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites