how shud i approach girls in public

[Sam 0]

Ok, My bad, Alzier.

What'bout this, LyMpAtHiC_SyStEm,

Walk by, accidentally bump into her real hard till she sit on the floor, sure that's quite an attention!

[kimmie 0]

Ok, My bad, Alzier.

What'bout this, LyMpAtHiC_SyStEm,

Walk by, accidentally bump into her real hard till she sit on the floor, sure that's quite an attention!

someone did that to me before.so obivous im walking straight and he bump into me turn me around in his arms....stared at him in his eyes and he smiles;"sorry i bump into u"

[lordy 0]

ok! lets all bump into kimmie next time!

[kimmie 0]

WALAU ALAMAK!;p ahaah next time ill bring protection gear which ppl wear when playing hockey

[CyBeR 0]

Has anyone ever tried just walking up and telling her it's a dare to get her number?

[dazzy! 0]

Has anyone ever tried just walking up and telling her it's a dare to get her number?

done that many times.. but its a real dare from my college mates hahaha get the number.. go back give the dudes.. get free beer.. laugh laugh get high go home sleep next day forgot who's number is it already haha

[CyBeR 0]

Hey! You're not supposed to give a girl's number away. Not cool, man.

[LyMpAtHiC_SyStEm 0]

im gonna ty the bump into someone

the turn around and saye sorry

u knw like those movies where the girl drops all her books after getting bumped by the guy

CYBER: bro u r right not nice to gif the numbers to ur mates its so uncool

MORE OPINIONS ARE WELCOME

[Sam 0]

someone did that to me before.so obivous im walking straight and he bump into me turn me around in his arms....stared at him in his eyes and he smiles;"sorry i bump into u"

Kimmie, Can I try that on you next time I meet you?

[LyMpAtHiC_SyStEm 0]

kimmie i added u to friendster under the name snave

[RevolutioGuy 0]

Wanna meh? Ladies will freak out of me later.

OK.

Ladies, please forgive me. This may cause your emotion/mood disturbance or generate confliction. I'm sorry. Actually this may apply to men too.

Guys, it may sound too old tactic 2 you but me myself pretty sure once you mastermind it (I'm still learning). Gosh, you might be another "jerk" or "casanova". Doesn't matter how many years past, that's mother nature of males and females. Basically, i figure out in relationship, both theories apply almost all the time. Juz the participants lost in their game. Juz my 2 cents!

Fishing Theory

Actually, It's not really "theory", should be fun!

Do you enjoy to play around with fish when you go to fish on the ocean?

What i meant here is, you try to battle/tackle with those fishes from the ocean by re-track or release your fishing reel and fishing lines as those fishes so powerful wanna to escape from your hook. After a while, it gets tired, then you sitting there with a can of beer and enjoy ur "prize". That's really fun.

So, here, assume the ladies are fishes. You're the fisherman. Apply that statement I told you up there to court your dream girl. This applies to after ladies give you a hint on initial approach - maybe invisible "click" or "ok". As it always refer to "No turning down conversation, gestures" "No no pick up the phone"..etc...etc. (actually untill right here, basically she is using this theory towards you. She let you feel excited, disappointed, mess your mind up....etc.etc.). She hasn't agree to be your girl yet. Still has to depend on your performance. So, you have to change the situation or strategies. Try to dominate the play to be you not her anymore (Banker & Player). Any idea? Usually, (NOT ALL) ladies like to be tackle, sometimes you slow down (re-track) a bit, sometimes "attack = impress" (release) her hard, "lost in the space" for certain period you want to, depends on her patient - probably she will wonder why this guy cool down so much and lost contact. Where the heck is he now?...blah blah" The rest, you figure it out yourself. Different ladies, different timing on "re-track" & "release".

Demand N Supply Philosophy

This will be a bit complicated. This is telling you how to identify the situation, with combination of "fishing theory" to court the one u want to be with to. When demand and supply work, it's a deal (you get attached)! Congratulations to yourself.

Situation

When a guy court a girl, that equals to demand and supply. (Guy = demand) (girl = supply). So, guy need to find himself the right supply. Coz why,

-Too many demands on a supply. Automatically, the supplier will increase the price. That's why in Hokkien, someone came out with this "tiao ge". That's hard for a guy to get that girl. Unless, you're practicing better "fishing theory" than all the other guys.

OR

-One demand to several suppliers. This is a jerk or playboy. The other way round, she is a "biaytch".

Combination

During courting period, if you (guy) as demander and you don't know how to control the "fishing theory". That means either you're demanding (wanna to be with her) and scare her off or as a demander, you supply too much attention to the girl, the supply(girl) sometimes will take it for granted or not appreciated your so called love! The other way round, samething happen. Guy either run away or take the girl for granted and not appreciated!

This philosophy can be extended to our marriage. Why the divorce rate is so high? I guess you'll do the math there.

All right!

I know this sound like too rational for the romance relationship. Usually difficult for us to use or apply when you court or during the relationship. BUT, I do believe, anyone who is in relationship will use them occassionally. Jus they don't know.

Let me re-phrase this. No offend to anyone regardless of what sex you are.

Juz for reference. Don't take it personally.

Agree, thank you. Not agree, please forget it.

Cheers

Sam

This is like learning economics in the school with a twist on how to court girls. Personally, sincerity and confidence, enthuasism make the girl want to know you better. Hope to see more posting and contribution from this forum. Cheerio...

[anthem 0]

why wanna aproach the girl at the first place? why?

[neuroticmind 0]

why wanna aproach the girl at the first place? why?

why don't want? why?

[CyBeR 0]

hahaha anthem you're not antisocial are you?

[Sam 0]

Anthem, Are you all right?

[chloe 0]

Has anyone ever tried just walking up and telling her it's a dare to get her number?

got ah...slumber only...some is like this.

Man: Can I ask you a question?

Lady: What can I help you?

Man: Wanna ask can I know you?

or

in cinema or whichever place where the guy is behind gals, angkat ur fon type your message there....reach to front from back by hand...eye level..bagi dia baca.

[Sam 0]

in cinema or whichever place where the guy is behind gals, angkat ur fon type your message there....reach to front from back by hand...eye level..bagi dia baca.

This is rude and will "shock" that girl (bad impression).

If I'm that girl, I will turn ard and said,

"Apa pasal? Wanna kena slapkah!"

[CyBeR 0]

*speechless*

[anthem 0]

i just come out from a cave ler...dunno much, tat's why ask many question..

[chloe 0]

kakaz...very weird. I meant the guy who did this. kes 'mempersiasuikan'.

[musiclover85 0]

crazy....

[LyMpAtHiC_SyStEm 0]

hey guys sorry been away

my internet so crap

plus getting stuff ready to go back to nz to study

ive tried this b4

show off by playing pool with 1 hand and then when girls tengok adi i say hey wann to see that shot again

or if they like dunno how to play i say i am quite good la plus owing ur own cue adds to the status

then i teach la

then ask for num say i'll teach them summore lol

i only got 1 num using tht the other day

[epileatheral 0]

If I do the "Bump into girl" technique, chances are the girl will end up in a hospital...kakakakakaka

[anthem 0]

why dun u show off by playing guli on the pool table? sure u'll get a lot of numbers cos the girl will think that u are very the cute.

[LyMpAtHiC_SyStEm 0]

whats guli again i gooverseas till can forget lol

er kimmie

tell them from ur opinion what u think abt my pic in friendster

u can say whatever u want lol as long as it is honest