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Hi everyone, I need help. I'm 28 and I'm in a long distance relationship. He's away for 3 months and he's back again for one month. I love him, we've been nearly 2 years together. Our only problem is that we never really made love. Both of us want it, but I'm a virgin. Having never done it, I have this constant fear that it's painful. And it doesn't help reading about it online where some girls say that it hurts a lot, even my close friends. We've tried everything. But every time we try, i tense up and pain flashes on my mind. I panic and we stop. And we only have one month to try and when it fails, we have to wait out the next 3 months. The frustration is real and sometimes I feel he expects from me (although he never says it). I've read that vaginal dilators seem to help. But they seem to be the same as using my own fingers. (I can't even put my own finger in) Does anyone know where to get dilators? I've searched online. And only one company in Malaysia sells it. Ben Way, and its easily RM 300 plus. If anyone has /had the same issue, I would love to hear your experience and how you overcame it.
