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  1. wow..seriously u can tahan sharing the girl with that another guy?.. as in u are ok that the girl u like is also sleeping with her current bf and u?.. waahh... dunno if this is really called "love" her or jz.. plain lust towards her.. anyway bro, i advice u to jz leave her.. obviously if she can sleep with u behind her bf back then u dunno how many guys have slept with her BEFORE u knew her.. and got security kah that girl?.. even if she ditch her bf and be with u.. how sure are u that she's going to stay loyal to u?.. maybe 1 fine day u will find out that she is sleeping with another guy behind ur back?.. that girl is nt worth it lah..
  2. i think everybody feels the same way dear.. dun b so upset.. anyway some of the people ere are right.. be happy the way u are.. i mean, c'on we're nt here to be models.. we're here to enjoy ourselves rite.. unless those people or those girls are laughing at u then its something different.. if they dont mind and is still friendly to u.. then forget about ur looks and jz be friendly to them.. in the end other people will know that even though u might nt be the most beautiful girl they've seen, u might be having the best character and attitude.. cheer up..
  3. i somehow agree with devildoll when she mentioned that what if someday when u are already married and then suddenly u figured that u cant take her attitude anymore?.. u want to leave ur children a loveless family or u want to be in a marriage filled with vengence and unhappiness?.. i guarantee u now that u are now fulfilling her needs soo much when u get married and u dont keep up the "Good job", she will feel hurt and unsatisfied cause u dont get her what she wants and u urself will get frustrated because u jz cant keep up with her demanding needs.. forget marriage at the moment and ask urself "DO u think she will change to be somebody who will save money and think for u after u guys get married"?.. From the way i see it (i;ve also been reading ur previous post), u mentioned that she is immature this and that bt i also see some immatureness in u..u knew that she is wasting ur money, u knew that she makes u run errands for her.. bt u let her walk all over u.. then u start bitching about it. C'on the road to happiness is not what and how much things u do FOR her and she gives u sex.. bt how much things u both work out together and being satisfied and happy over it. I've personally learnt it thru experience. if u were to read my post previously, my bf has not been very "pampering" in terms of buying me gifts, going to classy restaurants.. I've given myself a long thought and i figured it is uselss for me to be with him and bitch about how bad it is.. so i decided to break or go with him.. i decided to go on with him and from then on i never looked back.. he's not been buying me gifts, pampering me because he wanted to start up his own business needing lotsa money and i previously was immature.. i didnt care i jz wanted him to live up to my expectations too... just like ur gf, i admit i was selfish and so is ur gf.. Now that i ACCEPT the fact that his money is needed somewherelse, i dont bitch about it anymore because i accepted.. u on ur side is still not accepting that ur with such a person and deep down, ur still feeling [b]USED[/b]. u will feel this way forever, if u do not open up speak to her and resolve this problem.. and from ur 1st post, it seems that ur stating her as though she is darn shit, bitch, everything.. and then when ppl replied, ur defending her, oh no lah she's nt that bad .. she's good girl, she's nt cheap... what is this all about?.. i always tell my friends, if u are feeling unhappy about a relationship, ask urself [b]Do u still want to be with the person[/b]?.. if yes, then stop complaining and LIVE WITH IT.. because u CHOOSE that path.. and u choose to be walked over then be it..
  4. [quote name='babyguess4u' date='11 February 2010 - 01:02 PM' timestamp='1265864577' post='578950'] dear,yuri i guess the reason you feel like that is because you feel like the relationship is not going anywhere. i am pretty sure that no matter how busy a man is, he would definitely able to find some time to accompany the girl he like. personally, i think both of you have give up on the relationship thats why there is not much pain when you say you want to end it. it is normally to feel unwilling to let go because the happy memory when you're together is still inside your heart and mind. but time will wash away everything. i'm pretty sure better things will come to you soon cheer up and all the best to you. [/quote] he wants to have dinner with me today ON A WEEKDAY..how unusual of him.. i suppose it is to ask me why have i made this decision.. im afraid to go head on confrontation with another person.. should i go?.. should i not go and jz email him ask him why is he calling for the dinner?..
  5. yeah.. it is a blessing in disguise.. cause if the last incident didnt take place, you would have still been with that guy.. and you would have still believed that his marriage is nt doing good and still hoping that he'd leave his wife.. i'd say, take it as a good news to snap you out of that situation ur in.. and dont make the same mistakes later on.. whats most important now is to make urself happy...
  6. cny is around the corner.. and i've finally spill the beans to him.. i've been quite upset recently with him cause i can no longer tolerate the AA thingy and now its even worst .. cause he seems to be so busy with his business and his family that we've not been on a DECENT date for almost a month plus now.. its beyond my tolerance level now..he doesnt even have the time to go out with me.. and dont want to celebrate valentine's day with me (yeah we all know its coincidently clashing with CNY) bt that doesnt mean that he cant do it earlier or later loe.. anyway i told him today that i've set him free cause he's always saying that i control him and didnt giv him freedom so i told him im setting u free now.. so he asked me are u serious.. u really want this.. i said yeah i need sometime to think it over.. how long he asked.. i told him im nt sure.. bt im pretty sure that it may lead to him changing to better accommodate me.. or it may jz bloody right end here.. he sounded very reluctant and agreed with a low OK.. im nt really really upset, i dont feel like to cry.. i taste a bit of relief, i do have some unwillingness to let go.. i dun know why...
  7. wow.. 20 is sooo young to get married.. yeah u really have to be mentally prepared else its gonna be very difficult.. bt since ur already staying in with him then .. mayb ur already used to the lifestyle with him as in doing housework etc etc.. so .. wish u happiness...
  8. yeah .. never give up there.. if u have any unhappy feeling or jz needed an ear, jz rant it out here.. the good stuff is still waiting for you out there..
  9. hmm.. can it be something more?..it sounds ridiculous that after 3 years of being with you she breaks up.. it is not a short or not a long time as well... maybe u have some bad habits or something that made her feel so tired and fedup that she cant take it anymore?.. so happen that ur breaking of promise to bring her to HK jz heightened it?... i dunno lah only u will know the truth.. bt anyway since its over and she's gone, u dun be so sad also lah.. u cry everyday also no use cause she wont be back by ur side if u cry a whole bucket of tears loe.. i have friends who do all kinda things to get her bf back, in the end, she's even more hurt... i jz dun think that is the correct way to do.. look ahead.. life has many more things coming in front.. dun look back and we wish that u enjoy ur journey of life... hehe.. cheers...
  10. [quote name='Stranger In KL' date='01 January 2010 - 01:29 PM' timestamp='1262323792' post='577380'] Hi Jue, thanks for the encouragement Which one is easier to approach, officer-worker ladies or those you see in malls? I don't very fond of going to clubs. Oh, anyway, Happy New Year 2010 everybody! Merry Christmas too if you're celebrating it! [/quote] hehe.. chinese girls are quite reserved if u wanna befriend them in malls. it doesnt work here in KL. Chinese girls are much "sought" after by rapists, con men, pimps, etc. Thats why they are really SCARED if someone is to approach them like in the malls you may even be labeled weird guy or bad guy... haha...They usually go in groups and really tight knit group of friends I have yet to know any of my friends couple with a person they meet at the mall. Jst chill and get to know friends within ur colleagues or joining some of their activities. You will stand a better chance. Else, inform ur colleagues taht ur looking and add them in facebook. Chances are your colleagues may say oh this person is also single and available then you can continue to add them in facebook and start a conversation there.. I do have friends who met their bf online.. some even husbands online.. depends on your luck. hehe.. mayb u should make this ur new year resolution thogh.. hehehe...
  11. hmm.. yeah so true that Malaysian girls dun really respond to strangers.. and yes, most of the malaysian chinese will want to date malaysian chinese back.. but can i ask u something? Since ur an expat, u wont be staying in Malaysia for a long time so are u looking for a fling? or are u looking for a real relationship?.. If u looking for a fling then can go club if ur lucky then u might get a one nite stand.. if ur looking for a real relationship with a decent girl, its rather hard to get by smiling at strangers.. hehehe.. so get to know the ppl near u first like ur colleagues and expand the network from there.. joining ur colleagues for their happy hour, dinner then can tell them that ur looking.. chances of ur colleagues introducing their friends is higher.. dun be so desperade and jz think of getting a friend first... good luck ya...
  12. bf aso AB.. hahahaha...
  13. im AB+... haha my dad is A, Mom is B... so the result is me.. AB..
  14. dun take herbalife cause eat liao got constipated.. i tot my body oni is having problems bt then my bro also start drinking and complained that he also get constipated.. so stop d... those ppl wanna sell their product all say no lah this is normal bla bla bla say i must take their tea.. bla bla... bt then i suffer few months just to make my body become normal back and to be able to go toilet to poo poo now is a blessing...
  15. yeah.. i feel sad for u too.. this guy is just too blind to know ur such a worthy person... anyway believe in urself .. there will be people out there who really notice that ur an excellent gf ... hang on there gal..
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