[quote name='Cas' timestamp='1238380141' post='550961']
I'm sorry, maybe the first time is acceptable, but falling pregnant twice and then conveniently taking the easy way out is NOT alright. You say your parents are conservative and will not accept the baby, then you should have gone to lengths to make sure you wouldn't fall pregnant to avoid situations like this. Sure some will say it takes two to clap ,but listen, end of the day, it's YOUR body and life, you should have taken the steps to ensure these things. It's so easy to get pregnant and then decide to kill your own baby or even worse, throw him/her to an orphanage.
There's an orphanage nearby my home and every time I pass by it, it breaks my heart to see the innocent faces without a proper place to call home and mind you, some are abandoned kids with parents. If you really can live with yourself with that for the rest of your life, go ahead with it but I'll tell you know that it will come back to haunt you when you're older. Orphanages should be a place for kids WITHOUT parents and not a dumping ground for those who can't take on the responsiblity of it all.
Back when I was uni, some uni mates would fall pregnant, go for an abortion only to get pregnant again. So you might get an abortion now or give your baby up, how sure are you it will not happen again in the future? Learn to protect yourself dear. And do read up as well on the implications of multiple abortions, it's not good for your health and might disrupt your ability to conceive again in the future.
Right now your best option is to talk to your parents. Parents will always be by your side no matter how much you screw up. I doubt any stranger will help support you financially over what you've done
I know this is harsh but I am a married woman who will not stand for such things. I think this time around you need to take repsonsiblities over what you've done. Talk to your parents, I promise you it will do you good.
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Hi me n hubby interested to adopt a baby. u wrote there's orphanage nearby ur house. can u pls gv me the contact? thanx a million