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Jerry

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About Jerry

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    Preemie Babe
  • Birthday 08/20/1984

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    rhliau@hotmail.com
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  • Location
    KL Setapak
  • Interests
    Sing K....Gaming....Badminton....Cooking....Chating....Movie....Shoping....Making new friends
  1. Huh... u mean u're dating around without a real target? Won't be suprise that they avoided u when they realized u're dating many many more behind their back... Maybe it's time u put your focus only on ONE.
  2. LOL u're funny flyboy. hehe guess no guy will be tat stupid after all? Frankly, even I myself won't be tat generous. hahahaa. Well I'm not sure if she's interested cos i dun even dare to ask. But wat I'm sure is that throughout these months the respond I'm getting so far was OK and there was once she admited that deep down her heart she hopes to see me as a suitable guy for her. I hate to guess about wat girls are thinking cos I always catch the wrong signal... it's very embarassing.
  3. Life is getting tougher and tougher for single guys like me lately especially when it comes to trip. Me and my friends were organising a trip down to Bali until I realized everyone is going with their gf, which left me and another guy left. It is just so weird as the resort they chose to stay was such a romantic one. Both of us decided not to join because we felt like the whole trip is meant for couple, and we really can't imagine staying with each other in such atmosphere for the whole trip. (it's soo GAY!) Anyway, I've ask along a girl who I've been pursuing for almost 5 months to join. Unfortunately, she felt pai seh to join because everyone went with their couple. Worst of all, when I asked if anyone could spare their gf to stay with my friend (obviously I can't share room with her), NOBODY is willing to... ! Haih.. so here's my question: 1. Do you mind going on a trip with couples when u're single? Even staying by your own?! 2. If u were my f, would u mind sparing your gf/bf to stay with my f? In fact, who would be that stupid to give up such a good opportunities to have those romantic moments with their partner, especially in a place like Bali? 3. Would girls mind staying in the same room with a guy, who she's fully aware of his intention to pursue her? 4. If she minds... what is the best way to ask her for a trip which involved overnight? You must assume that even if I get my friends along they'll get their gf/bf.... Hope my questions ain't too stupid.
  4. Mr. Miserable, I totally feel u... always had thoughts like yours and it caused me to almost end up with a gal I do not like AT ALL. I'm lucky that I pull off before things got worse so today I can see things in a clearer pictures. Life is roller-coaster, u nv know when will u reach the peak, u just hv to wait.. wait... and wait. I can see u're a nice guy, and u deserve a good life! Be patient bro.
  5. I would say she really likes u but she's just too shy to speak it out. Frankly I've been in such situation before which the gal had make it very clear in sms that she likes me a lot but when we're out she just keep quiet. I dislike that as it actually makes me feel embarass at those moments... Anyway, if u like her, go for it la bro! If not, keep away!!!!
  6. Hihi Lordy how r u? Remember me right? Anyway mind telling me more abuot this event? I'm going this Sat with friends so really look forward to meet u all. As for ticket, how many extra ticket u hv there? My f hvn't bought yet. There's like 5 of us I assume.
  7. Yup u're right Cyber. Basically it wasn't the matter of English or Chinese Ad, but the thinking is just quite different. I can't understand her joke well so does her so it's kinda pissed sometimes. Anyway for now I hv no choice but to forget about it cos she just patched back with her bf recently. Well.. all I can do now is wish her all the best.. Still hv to see her everyday so trying my best to see her as a f only. Anyway thx for all the encouraging message. Thanks you ppl...
  8. Thx for all the replies and believe me, I appreciate that. Hmm... this week had not been an encouraging week compare to last week. For last week I was still able to strike a conversation with her and it last quite some time. However, this week was like a nightmare.... just imagine that no matter what I asked she'll only reply in a cold manner. Eg: I asked why is she quiet and her reply was "I'm tired" in a COLD way (not even looking at me!).... I dare not ask why cause it seems like she doesn't wanna talk to me anymore. So, I've decided not to approach her for talk anymore cause I really feel like an idiot trying to please someone who doesn't even bother to talk to me.... and it already last for a few days. As for why, I believe it's because ppl around had been spreading words about us, which eventually caused her to back off.... For now, I just wanna have her as a good friend but even that seems impossible for me now... My f suggested that I should confess to her about my feeling but emphasize that I will not be persuiting her. On the other hand, other friends advice me not to tell her and let it goes naturally. I'll like to hear some opinion from girls. Should I tell or should I not?
  9. Hey nygere, u got some good point there. Remind me of last week when I was teaching her chinese words for more than 30min... those are some really sweet moment. Thinking of how she pronounce those words still makes me smile. Sometimes I just dun understand girls, for 1 sec they can be talkative which eventually makes u think things is going well but for the next sec they can be so cold.... Thx for your advice anyway, as for your case, good luck to u too! I may not be a happy person for now but I do hope ppl around me will find happiness
  10. Man your way is really mean... u must be a guy then. Weird enough, I nv had the thought of *aheming* her even though I liked her a lot. Anyway, I ain't gonna use this way, I respect her and there's ntg wrong about me being rejected (althought I nv confess). I'm just unlucky ...
  11. Hi people, Now u ppl make me feel bad for bringing this topic up.... I admit I'm still immature when it comes to relationship. But 1 thing I have to clarify, the reason I mentioned about her having 8 ex was just being WORRIED, and that won't stop me from knowing her more. Axzel, I don't have any ex doesn't mean girls are shunning me, and yet I'm good with socializing, no lie! My situation is I can communicate very well with all girls in my program except her because I can't treat her as a normal f. I'm very serious and sincere about relationship and I swear I'm gonna make my first gf the luckiest person of all. Btw, I was desperate but I NEVER SHOW IT, AND IT FEELS REALLY BAD TO HIDE THAT FEELING EVERYDAY!! Nvm, call me a desperado watever u want. How stupid I am to fall for a girl who i bearly know. How I wish I've nv met this girl... then I'll be able to concentrate in my program. Anyway I've give up.... I'll TRY MY BEST to see her as normal f. Today we were having breakfast face to face and our trainer asked y were we so quiet (he seems to notice there's something wrong with me cos I was always a talkative guy)... that was really embarassing and I was speachless... I wonder y is she that quiet too, maybe she noticed that I liked her and starts to avoid me. ha...ha.. ha...KUDOS to me!! Sometimes I really hate myself....
  12. Hi Chipfox, thx for the reply. But for now there's really ntg much I can do about it cause she's hunting my mind... You have no idea how tempting her laughing is... you're right, I haven't really know her well yet, tat's y i'm planning to get her out for a movie or drink so I can get to know her more. Anyway, I totally agree with u that i might get screwed badly in the end... but I feel that it's a life-time experience so somehow such thing can't be avoided. So, I'll still give it a try even though it might end up with pain.
  13. Hi babes, I'm in a dillema now and sincerely hope u ppl can provide me some advice: I met this girl 2 weeks ago in my company's training program. Since then I've been kinda desperate in knowing her. From what I know, she's currently single so I've been trying very hard to get into a conversation with her whenever I can. Now, here's my prob: 1. She's English ed while I'm Chinese ed 2. She had 8 ex... while I have none 3. Although she loves to talk, but she rarely take innitiative to talk with the others (including me) For (1), I understand very well that people who's english ed tend to look for a partner who's english ed too... my English wasn't bad but I still faced lots of problem on what topic should I start with her. It makes me feel really bad cause I'm actually one who can talk a lot especially in Mandarin and Cantonese. But when it comes to English, my communication would turn a bit boring due to bad intepretation..... For (2), what do u all think of a girl with 8 ex? I was shocked and sad when I noticed that, eventually I started to wonder if she's even serious with relationship. For (3), usually when I approach her for a chat she'll talk a lot with me but after so many days still I'm taking the lead, does that mean she's not interested with me at all? Btw, all the other trainees thought we were getting along very well but I know it isn't cause it was always a one-sided conversation.... I asked a lot about her but she nv asked about me... Anyway, she's turning me into a moody person now a days cause I just can't get her off my mind. If u wonder y, well cause I'm seeing her every single day and I am very much attacted to her laugh, so whenever she laughed it would be a distraction on whatever I'm doing (OK i admit I'm weak!!! ) For now I'm trying to get her out someday for a movie or something so any tips for me, please? I'm serious about this girl and there's no way I'm gonna let go that easily!
  14. Hey Yuri, I'm not an expert in love and relationship. But why don't u just leave him a letter telling him your feeling on the last day. Well since the possibility of u 2 meeting again in the future is almost zero (assume u 2 won't keep in touch), there's ntg much to be afraid of right? We both do know meeting some1 that u really like is VERY HARD in the real world, so dun u ever give up so easilly... especially when the guy is still s&e. Anyway, GAMBATEH!!
  15. Ei!! Topic closed. NO more discussion here plz... sorry ya Cyber if u find my topic to be quite abusive. Well maybe my anger management is not good yet. Forgive me ok? I'm not an experience guy who got tons of experience on girls and that's y i got mad when my intention was a good one. To those who concern, thank you. To those who find I'm raising a unnecessary topic, I applologize and promise that I'll nv raise such thing again.
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