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  1. @babybb, I registered to this forum just to reply u....since I happen to have d same case but I play d part of your bf.... Let me tell u this. At first, ur bf may be more of authoritative person and may also easily get jealous. Such person may not feel very happy when you as his gf is more social then he is. In other words, he does not prefer you to mix with friends too often. But I cannot blame u on this part....probably he does not have much of activity to come up with that makes u wanna do it with him rather than your friends. In my case I m busy with work even during weekends. If your bf is like me then he expects u to understand him, n be beside him...u might not need to do anything but just be beside him, or rather stand by for him. Though he may like it....it may bore u to death coz u r d type to socialise..more outgoing person if I may say. [b]So here's d incompatibility here.[/b] Even if u go out with friends often and he does not favour it....he still can accept...but u crossed d line when u start to lie to him...although u did nothing to wrong him...not betray him or anything...but men look at is a different way...we think further...now u start to lie just to be with friends..."what if" one day u start to lie over more serious things? Humans are like this...u start to lie....if he didn't find out....u succeed, u feel happy...and thinks u can do it again....then its again n again n again.....so when he found out....about ur lies....the trust you both have established for d past so many years goes down d drain. [b]Trust is no more there. [/b] Now...here's the stage of no return. Because of the 2 paragraph above that I explained, he now no longer able to rest easy whenever u go out with friends.....and question mark always appears in his mind whenever u r not with him...what ure doing...where u went...etc. even though u told him....can he trust u? Everything becomes a problem when trust is broken. For my case....my 11 years relationship went down d drain just like that. I hope u can still mend yours You may not admit its your wrongdoing....but nobody is right or wrong here... He may be a control freak...but u both can sit down discuss and come to an arrangement where both is ok with it...but u go n break d trust.....and now everything becomes difficult coz d trust is no more there. Love is never a problem for my case...but when trust is no longer there....d relationship does not work anymore coz this trust thing...once broken, hard to build back.
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