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  1. Usually I'll avoid taking cold drinks a week before my period, even though it can be tempting during hot weathers. My mom makes some chinese medical soup for ladies twice a month, it helps you to replace the blood you shed every month. But i rely on pain killers to stop the pain cuz it stops the pain faster...However, i'll only take it when i really cannot stand the pain....
  2. Yup, just reply "i love you too" ....
  3. I experienced being 'pressed' by spirits for a few years when i was in secondary school. The very first encounter happened when i decided to take a nap on a sunday afternoon. I locked my room's door so no one would come in and disturb me. After a while, i felt very cold like there's a thin layer of blanket was covering me, and i couldnt move. Moving one of my finger was like a very tiring ordeal and i tried very hard to get up, but i cant. My eyelids opened a bit, then guess what i saw? I saw a boy (around the age of 6-7) was sitting on my stomach and starring at me. I still can remember the shirt and pants he wore. Just that cannot see his face clearly. I was shocked and i wonder whether it was my cousin who came to visit my family when i was sleeping. So i got up, then went to my door and suprisingly it was still locked! Obviously it couldnt be my cousin cuz when i saw that 'boy', i got up immediately. A normal person couldnt sprint to the door that fast right? I didnt tell my mom bout my encounter cuz i knew that she wouldnt believe me so i did another round of testing, just to be sure. So the next weekend (around the same time), I took a nap and locked my bedroom's door. I was thinking "if you sat on me when i sleep with my body facing up, then this time i'll sleep facing down". The 'thing" really came and sat on my back and it did something different that time. It touched my back with upwards and downwards strokes and i was like "what the hell?" then it hit me hard. I got up instantly and went to my door to check whether it's still locked, and it was still locked. This time I have enough proof to tell my mom, i think my experience scared her cuz she was alone at home when everyone else went to work and school.
  4. Thanks for all your constructive comments. He apologised for being insensitive when he brought up those 'questions' and promised that he wont do it again (i hope).
  5. What happened since u posted that you guys are patching up? hang on there Joshua...
  6. If he raise the question once, i can take that he's joking but a few times? For a girl, we tend to think of the many possibilities and might not know what's really happening there. I think that guys should be more sensitive towards our feelings and think of how we feel before they say it out. I'll adopt the 'look and see' way and see how it goes. So far, i think what he said and did really hurt my feelings and made me feel insecured.
  7. Hi babes. I'm facing some problems lately and would like to hear your advise and opinions. I'm in a relationship for 4 years (going to be 5 years) now and there have been no problem in our relationship. We are a close and happy couple, and support each other all the time. I believe things changed when he changed job and he's been very close to a lady colleague (he told me that she's having some relationship problem with her bf) of his. I would say that she's very friendly towards her collegues as she would call and text her colleagues after work and on weekends, and talk about anything with her colleagues. Lately, i notice that my bf gets excited when there's a sms from her and he would check his phone to see whether he receive sms from her. He told me that he log on to msn everyday after work to see whether she's online to chat with her until 1-2 am. Whenever we talk, her name pops out in our conversation at least 3-5 times. He tells me the things about what she's interested in, things she like, her character, and sometimes he mention that they're meant to be a couple due to some things they share in common. The best part is he told me that his colleagues can see that they're very close during one of their kareoke session (as in sit very close and stuff). There are times during our conversation where he mentioned that he would like to go after her, seeing that he might have the chance to be the 'screwdriver' as she's facing a problem in her relationship. Putting yourself in my shoes, I've done nothing wrong in this relationship and he said that maybe he would like to go for a change. I was thinking, is there anything I could do to make the best out of this?
  8. What an interesting thread! I believe they are everywhere .. and it depends whether your luck is on the high side, if not then there's a possibility you can bump into them ... I had a few encounters myself too.
  9. Glad that you talked to her about your relationship . Its never too late to realise your mistake which could save the relationship that you've been wanting to keep all this while. Keep up to good work buddy !!!
  10. Hi Joshua, From your post, you're saying that she dun wan to let her parents know that she's in a relationship? Meaning that her parents wouldnt let her have a bf when she's studying? If that's the case, then it's going to be a bit difficult for her because she maybe living in lies (as in 'pak tor' with you without her parents' consent). If you look from her position, she may be stucked between you and her parents and because of that situation, she doesnt know what she wants. So, maybe that's where her frustration come from and she let it out on you. I can say to be stuck in a relationship like this is difficult cuz both parties (you and her) will suffer. I think if 2 ppl really want to be together, they'll try their best to work it out no matter what kind of obstacles they face or may face later. Maybe you should talk to her on what she wants from this relationship because there is no point where both of you keep having dissatisfaction from this relationship which going make you both unhappy.
  11. hmm..drop hints? Like mention about the girl in all the conversations that you had, join the outings which the girl goes, be close to the girl (i.e. chat with her on msn till 1-2am, wait for her to go online to can chat online with her, sms her often)?? Or maybe to the extend that the guy tell the girl that he want to be with the girl, be it the girl is attached or not? Oh boy, that's seems to be a cruel thing to do isnt it? I believe in karma, as there's a saying that 'be good to others and you'll get appreciated or benefit"...
  12. It seems that guys can change their mind easily. So, would a guy like another girl (be it a friend, colleague or etc) who is better (in appearance) than his current gf? If yes, then it would be unfair for the gf as the bf may be attracted to the other girl based on physical appearance and not her character.
  13. Hi Joshua, I've been reading your posts since the beginning felt really happy for you when you told us that you were in a relationship with the girl that you like. I'm in a relationship too, with my 1st bf for almost 5 years (going to be this Sept, hehe) and i can say as time goes by, you'll get to know your gf more and more up to the stage that you can read her mind (like what's she thinking and stuff). Also, as time passes you will get to know the 'real' her and you might discover her pros and cons. I think communication is really important in a relationship cuz you'll get to know each other better and share your feelings. I noticed from your posts that she's feeling insecured and sometimes become more demanding. In my opinion, maybe both of you should sit down and really talk about it, at least you can find some solutions on the issues that she's worrying about all this while.
  14. Below are my results... Compability: 96% Both individuals are very loyal and serious in relationships and not afraid of commitment. Scorpio will like Capricorn's stability and practicality, whilst Capricorn will be able to open up to Scorpio's passion. The chemistry will be strong but might take a while to develop, since both individuals do not open up easily. Because the two want the same things, as far as love matters are concerned, they will usually find in each other a great partner, and the differences between them will only add some minor challenges, which will spice up the relationship, and not endanger it. Overall, it is a wonderful match. Is it true? haha.
  15. I had the same experience many times and that was like when i was still in secondary school. I dont think i'm having lucid dreams at that time cuz most of the time, i can feel some 'presence' near me. I can hear lots of kids playing, or some old man or old lady mumbling near my ear. Chinese called them 'being pressed by ghosts' .....
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