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  1. Can i trade fridge magnets for friendship? Im going to KL in mid Dec. Anyone interested to trade fridge magnets for stamps/friendship, pls send me a pm. Thanks!
  2. I get a quote somewhere stated that you guys are tired of organizing and the rest are simply too passive and wait... I dont mind to help in organizing one but im clueless WHERE and what time is the usual clubbing time I dont even know how should I start to help organizing one. What we usually do in our Mommy and Babies Gatherings to group the mommies and babies for a playsession is: we list down the venue, time, date then all interested mommies will response with their names with contact numbers so that we know we should wait up or not etc... Is this going to work for u guys here? I promise i wont tag along my baby this time Anyone fancy for a mamak gathering plus a movie in the week before Xmas?
  3. I voted at first column but it is not quite right since I havent done it before but i have never thought of Not doing so if i happen to go to a nudist beach I would love to hug the sand and let the beautiful sea breeze touch my body. Everyone is careless, why not? Stare at me? Let them stare, for compliments or for bad, would I care )
  4. Traveling alone in well developed European Countries are very safe, tho I have not been traveling alone to those countries, but I was there with my husband to some of the major countries. We explored on our own and as it is too easy to travel by train with full info around the station etc... I dont see any problem if i wanna go there next time by myself. We even tagged along our 1-year-old to many new cities on day-trip basis in one of the trip. We gain lots of knowledge by traveling by ourselves to learn the city name, the language, the culture and so forth. We are both old geeks and we do not mind if our faces are not in our travel photos cos jes he took for me and i took for him... Mostly we only took some scenery photos cos the scenery is TOO GREAT and TOO PERFECT to add any human's head in it Except our little boy's, the angel, of cos. Any photos of him is perfect in anything. Therefore I dont quite agree to those Pros and Cons listed above. But I do agree that to travel alone as a female in South East Asia is very dangerous. But Not a problem if u wanna go to Taiwan, HK, Japan.... as long as u stay in the crowd, and dont act so differently than the locals. Stay low profile, learn quick and build the rapport, dont insist what u think u like, communication is always a major problem in traveling or life... Indeed to share the fun during trip is essential so it is really no fun if u cling on this habit and go travel alone, it is depends on your personality.
  5. @Keatsan Agree that life consist of lotsa mistakes as to come to a non-mistake - thats the beautiful of life. But in the book <The science of getting rich> it says that if we see things from other way round, there isnt any mistake at all, cos those so-called mistakes are actually the steps of getting us to the success... it is all about positive mind out of topic i know... it couldnt be patching to this thread.... but jes to share how i feel. @Cas Thanks for sharing - at least now i know more of OTHER's story/confession. If u still want to find out how SS thinks about her story: No, it is nothing like my story. The article: 1) she lies from beginning and pretending she is still loving her husband by playing with time to delay having 2nd baby and so forth.... 2) she found the long-lost feeling from her bf which she once had with her husband during dating/early marriage... It is very different from mine. 1) I dont lie to my husband, I demanded for a divorce but it is unacceptable by him and then i found out that it is too cruel to do so for them therefore im ready to stay on till child is older.... 2)Im not much into this 'romance'... we are good friend, life mentor.... admirer...
  6. Dear Ewoe - thanks! 'finding myself' is a very small part of starting this thread, all i wish is to raise a platform for all hidden identity out there to voice out how you feel as if u r into an affair with the very clear definition of WHAT an affair actually means - with BOTH mentally and physically committment. Im seeking all other lost souls out there who HAS BEEN there and voice out and we can get together for each other. Apparently we are still very shy community, so far i have got 4 males and females to 'confess' to me privately and we became great friends.... for those who ARE INTO THIS but still not send me a pm, pls do so as i know very much YOU WANT to voice out .... No matter we HAVE OR HAVE NOT committed into this affair, lets get together, it shouldnt have to be BAD afterall.... Life is always full of surprises.... Wish you all good luck in life
  7. THANKs Cas, for the effort of reading and reply. But Im sorry, your statement is very much similar to those i replied earlier. It is not the artificial romance that i want and talking about. Anyway, i have not give up trying with him till today, but he never moves a bit so i cant help it. Im not well myself and if my heart is gone, all bcos he isnt capable to keep it as i have always been wanting to be with him. Stop openly commenting about SS story please. But all pm are welcome for anything. ------------ It is not a thread to ask IF we should HAVE an affair OR NOT. This is to raise and share if anyone has came across this and share your insights/emotional fights... Hope to get more responses... from anyone
  8. @shyen I heard of club med cherating, but i havent been there before!...keep asking ... no i have not been to ANYWHERE at all! LOL I should arrive KL on/before 15th for less than 2 weeks, i guess i wont stay more than 3 days in KL and it'd be separately bfore and after the trip. Are you keen to meet me up? Sorry I havent replied your email - u will get it today!!! Yes, the next-next time I plan visit my homeland, sabah, more often for scuba diving - anyone interested to join me? @darling Yes, i want to meet new friends and have new life LOL But meeting new friend is not the essential part of the journey, it is jes that ppl around me are not in the same thought/vision with me about traveling so i might as well go and look out for fun and interesting ppl out there. Yes u r right about bad things could happen. Except TRUST, i think we need to get some basic understanding first as well ) afterall, why am i the only one to worry, who knows I could be the one to harm/threadtern them as well...heehee... I will charm them by my love, even if they do bad on me, they will remember they hurt the kindest ppl on earth, so I "pay them off" by giving them a lesson of life
  9. Absolutely agree to this. I believe so. I claimed that (1)Im a lost soul (2) I dont like my marriage/famiy life= lost my passion onto 'marriage' therefore im not looking forward to a 2nd marriage, and (3)Im planning a trip alone to withdraw myself away from all of these; most importantly, before i fall, (4) Im looking forward to listen to others confessions and see how others have value their own life value upon their failure in marriage. But if you keep running. When will you stop ? Yes, except running away, i dont know what else i could do as Im completely fed up about this life. Unlike typical chinese women, they die for serving their family unconditionally without asking for return. I too do not ask for return, but I jes dont find passion to continue this lifestyle in the next 50yrs. What if the next relationship is the same ? Keep running ? Yes I may, i dont know. I havent made up my mind yet, thats why i started this thread and wish to get more advices from 'insiders'. ** Im not particular up to any affair or seeking outside or hurting my husband or hurting anyone... all i ever wanted is a company to do something different in life. Watch a sunset quietly, watch the birds fly, enjoy the sea waves, feel the sand, hear the birdies vocal, feel the wind... all of these, he is not capable to do with me and instead of keep waiting, i really need so desperately right now...
  10. jvcpcv - 寫得太好了!我也好迷惑~愛愛性性﹣到頭來還不是一場空。到底想作緊的是什麼
  11. Hunny, u r very right too. We ladies should really be a great lady for them instead of nagging all day long. Help& love ourselves instead of waiting to be loved by them. I spent the last 10yrs to tell my husband that I sth+this way, sometime he remembers, but he forgets it most of the time; so now, instead of waiting for him to do it automatically imprinted into his memory, i do it myself in order to please myself+which means Give UP. I spent 10yrs to learn this trick to flatter myself, i hope you great young ladies out there need a much shorter time for this. Eg, book yourself a great dinner venue plus roses plus gifts, by his credit card of cos A wise friend of mine who is a secretary, she did all of these to please herself and she only demand her husband to present himself. I guess that works as if we need HIS BODY this way in this picture with us For those girls who really long for a romantic bf/husband - better still we girls date each other on our girly special friendship day so that we get lots of lovely touchy gifts, cheers our Champagne, walk with hands for sunset and laugh and chat till dawn.... :P
  12. flyboy - your imaginations are vivid and i love all of them. Plus the earlier one sth with your banglore+swimming pool in Miami -- in ur dream ) Yea if i were to tag along to you in such a trip, I sure love do every single thing with you as you mentioned there = afterall, thats traveling all about and we dont get chances to do them all every another day. So, Im up for ALL of them However I rethinking and count again... most of them are erotic wise I do hope I would have more time than simply doing all of these items so that i still get my time to my books and watching sunset and or scuba diving, trekking into the jungle or simply doing nothing instead of doing something ) What else do you long for/dream of doing in your future trip? future life? No, i have not read those series, but i think it is going to be fun too
  13. galz, i know how lonely it is for being in single, but the class of Marriage is not where u learn if u get gham or not... it is rather a class where u r ready to find out your true self as well as his.... = to face life together. Not to forget - life simply means it is full of lots of fun as much as pain.... check this site out: http://danielfranklingomez.com/blog/2007/1...-into-marriage/
  14. my ex-bfs and hubby, most of them do not make a big deal out of the important dates, so do i. everyday IS VERY important and every important date could be not important as well. chill out, mate! I prefer a guy who forgets all of the so-called important dates but he remembers what i want in my life; than having a guy who remembers all important dates make it very special, but yet, he doesnt know Who I Am.... Maybe Im too old in the thread/forum gals... when u grow older maybe you will get what i mean here...
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