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  1. I suggest Victoria's Secret ! Their sponge is even more comfortable than La Senza's
  2. my ex boyfriend was those kind of guy too. He added them,look at their photos and even comment or post to their facebook. I can't stand it but i just accept it. Now i'm feeling stupid because why i didn't even dare to question him about all these girls. He ask me not to be jealous because he loves me. He is just lying. For ur case,since he has alredy has a relationship with u for 4 years. That was really stable,maybe he just feel "horny " sometimes ,so just check out the sexy girls. Try ignore him for a while and let him know that you're important to him. At least he didn't try to contact them as in call or sms . Good Luck (:
  3. Hello , here i come again.But this time doesn't really related to relationship,mostly about friendship. I had this girl friend who was close to me when I'm 14.We were once best friends but after that we seldom contact with each other. We had argue very very badly last 2 months because she heard that i call her desperate.I was just gossip with my friends in college, and i don't know how she get the news that i call her ' desperate '.I say her like that because she has been changing to some sort of desperate b****,she added many guys in fb and ask them out straight after knewing the guys in fb. She even added all the guys who posted on my wall before,she just add the guys,not girls. I'm feeling weird so i discuss it with my college friends in college ( she is diff college with me ) So now,she deleted n blocked me in fb and twitter. She scolded me badly in sms.I'm feeling guilty because i knew i had lost a fren. But a month later i found out actually there's many ppl hate her too. Just now,i used my fren's profile to view her fb. Last time,she added my ex bf since i list him as my relationship partner in fb. then now,i saw her posting to my ex's wall but something about they alredy knew each other in fb. After that,she added many of my ex's college frens. I knew most of his college frens.So one of them was telling me that he knew her in fb after she added him thru my fb. Then when i quarrel with her,i told him tht abt this girl's problem.he also told me that this girl has a lot of friendship problem with others. Then now suddenly i saw them chatting with each other so close in fb n even twitter. They even went to club together. I feel that she is a very cheap woman but at the same time i'm like jealous ? Guys have been telling me she is not hot and has many problems .And yet i still see them hook up with her. I just got a news that she offer make out to a guy who she just knew in fb. And that guy has a girlfriend. I also hear from the guy's gf ( cos both of them are my frens ) that she wanna meet up with that guy not just for fren meet up session but also want to know what's the relationship between me and that guy. I was like what the hell ? I told my ex that how disgusting is her n everything.I even open her fb profile to him. And now they might be hooking up. I don't know. I am still moving on from my ex but i just don't like this girl. If she wants to know more guys she can go ahead and meet guys outside but she just love to steal ' frens ' from me.
  4. [quote name='Aikzhou a.k.a IcEy' date='03 October 2010 - 10:19 PM' timestamp='1286115571' post='589008'] Queenwa, You mentioned the word college. Meaning you are either still in your teens or nothin more than 21 years old. Life is full of bliss and can also be full of pain. What you been through is just a warm up of what life will be. There are many crooked people around. You just gotta flow with it. You are still young, why rushing into bf's or love or stuff like that? Concentrate on your studies and when weekend comes, go out and party with your friends or just have a great hangout and return back to the same old thing again when the weekend is over. I won't advice how you can forget this fella or whatever your case is. Cuz, i've seen and read many relationship problems in MYB that could most probably last me a lifetime! But, what I can say to you is that don't try loving someone or get into a relationship if you don't love yourself first. Don't hate yourself for what has happen but learn from it. You are a smart girl if not you wouldn't be in college right now.. right? So, wake up.. the road ahead of you is more than just one fling. Everyone has been used or still being use. All of us is given a choice to move ahead. You make that choice to stay and hog this petty meaningless jerk in your head or you wanna move on and achieve greater things in your life? Your choice.. its your game and you make the call. Simple. Take care. Truly, Aikzhou a.k.a IcEMoCHa [/quote] thank you so much for ur advice (: it really helps me and i feel so much better. those jerks do not worth my time , i will learn to love myself. more and more. make boys find me but not i find them. i will party n enjoy a lot myself with my frens this is my game , i shudn't be the one got controlled (:
  5. [quote name='amandashu' date='02 October 2010 - 11:38 PM' timestamp='1286033908' post='588990'] Not all boys are like that. Maybe you haven't met the nice and good one yet. Forget about that brat. Your life is still beautiful without such boys exist in your life. Think positively and things will come smoothly. Don't worry, you'll find better one next time and the world is still large to explore. PS: I don't mean to offend you [/quote] thanks for ur advise (: i will really enjoy my life right now. forget n ignore abt the jerk , he dont worth my time
  6. It's gonna be a long story again. continue reading if you can take it I opened up a post abt my ex bf last time. anyways,thanks to all those who gave me opinion and support. I had finally walked out the shadow of his , i manage not to miss him / love him so much I started to move on, and i get few guys to like me. But,it doesn't end up so successfully since many people say ' walk out from the pass, and you will get a better 1 ' . There are 2 guys like me , but I'm kind of like one of them. So , i rejected another guy. So the one that i like called M . He has big ego problem , angry easily , loves to blame at people and he still thinks is not his fault. Btw, i only knew him about a month only.I had big ' drama ' with him such as quarrel like couple even tough we are not. He often controls me not to flirt other guys if i truly likes him (which i not sure that time),but he can flirt with other girls . He often controls me not to wear shorts or short skirts to college because he doesn't like it (as if like i'm his gf). He get to check my sms always but i only check his for a few times . I am sure i doesn't like him like i do last time to my ex, i dun feel the ' love ' feeling , yet. What he said to me is quite true like ' you shud forget abt ur ex , and start accept a new guy '. he is giving me hints that new guy was him . I started to be close with him , i always date with him. We also started to kiss before we couple. After a day he came to my house , we made out and kiss. and then , the next 2 days he turns out so cold .He admit he is avoiding me. He said he dun feel like ' love ' feeling from me ,is just ' like ' , not ' love ' . i was like wat the hell ? so i just accept it and we became normal friends. A few days later, he change his FB status to ' in a relationship' he couple back with his ex after a year of broke up . They broke up last time because he cheated on her. I was heartbroken when i see his status change to in a relationship. he can just change for so fast. he said he love me n likes me like a few days ago be4 this ?and then now what? he told me he still loves her so he promised he won't cheat on her anymore. I told him that i liked him and he choose to be so cold to me afterwards because he thought i don't like him. he said it's too late so we just continue be friends. 2 days ago i found out he DELETED ME from facebook , i ask him why and he answered because he don't want his gf to think too much. i was like wtf ? that is even worse ! if his gf truly trust him , she won't scare that whatever i post or see his fb. he just answered me with ' anything laa' and we continue to be like this. i hate him seriously alot ,i wanna cry out loud but my tears just wont come out. i need to see him every day in college , i am so sad and angry. but when i see him , i am happy . i knew he used me but i really can't remove him from my memory . We are not even couples , we are just flings . and it makes the situation worse since i can't even say the word 'break up '. Boys are all like that is it ? Flirt with you till you 're in love with them ,then they dump u without reasons. I thought i will meet someone better but it turns out worse I hate my life.
  7. [quote name='timothyngim' date='03 September 2010 - 04:22 PM' timestamp='1283502148' post='588420'] Hey hey, sorry late reply. I tot you disappear somewhere and was worried that something happen to you, like accident or similar. Currently am kinda busy so not able to tell u the whole story 1st (Matta Fair around the corner, am working in travel line) but anyway: "i knew i should let go of my ex but it is really hard especially when i met a new guy,i thought of like forgetting my ex already, but i am sure i dont like the new guy and i still miss my ex alot. sigh . i really don't know what to do. I knew that he is forgetting me too ,so yeah.i am always the 1 who get hurts " You met a new guy but you find it hard to let go your ex? Um....maybe focus on letting go your ex first. Let me tell you what to do. If you don't like the new guy, maybe just tell him. Guys are simple-minded, if you don't tell him but continue to "play along" with him he will get hurt sooner or later... (thats what your ex did to you) Next thing is, maybe you should try to cry it all out if you are sad? Although you may not be sad but sure will have some hurt right? Sometimes that is the best way to heal. Another option which I don't really recommend is: When was the last time you had contact with your ex? Maybe try go visit him to reduce your missing him? I just hope you can be healed of your hurt, queenwa. I understand the hurt and have been through it. ~timothyngim~ PS. You seem quite free, queenwa, now u doing what actualy? Study? Working part-time? Slacking? [/quote] I'm studying now as college student.But, i online everyday so i seem free I like the new guy,but our attidutes some times can really leads to quarrel. Now we are ok abt it,we liked each other.But i didnt fall hard for him,because u know,my ex hurts me alot Tmr is my ex's birthday , i duno what to say to him ~ but i wanna talk more with him. I saw his FB photos,he went out with his ex gf -.- i didnt see my ex about 2 months already.i dun dare to ask him out,later he thinks i'm still not over him,so yeah ~
  8. [quote name='timothyngim' date='30 August 2010 - 10:26 PM' timestamp='1283178365' post='588292'] Um Queenwa, are you still there? [/quote] yeah of cos i am still here yeah you may tell me ur personal stories i knew i should let go of my ex but it is really hard especially when i met a new guy,i thought of like forgetting my ex already, but i am sure i dont like the new guy and i still miss my ex alot. sigh . i really don't know what to do. I knew that he is forgetting me too ,so yeah.i am always the 1 who get hurts
  9. [quote name='timothyngim' date='23 August 2010 - 06:01 PM' timestamp='1282557703' post='588089'] You are a real lucky girl, see? Just single already got guys willing to date you actualy I do wonder what is the step to dating a girl. Thank you so much for sharing with me about your progress, queenwa. Actually since you just broke up, I would like to advice you, if you are still pining over the loss of your ex, especially in your circumstance, maybe you should not date yet. Bcos end up wait you will miss him all the more and end up hurting the new guy instead. But anyway, all the best in your new relationships. Maybe you can teach me how..... You said that one of the guy that like you like is a Malay? Um, I thought you are a Malay??? <confused> [/quote] but i dont think my ex even cares about me anymore. He din even contact me, even saw me online in skype and Facebook. I am a Chinese , haha , do i sound like a malay ? I heard my guy fren said that it takes about 4 weeks to get a girl. 1st , get their number , msn . Try to chat with them, as new friends. Then slowly flirt for the 2nd week 3rd week starts to date them , buy stuff for them . 4th week , ask whether can become gf bf anot . Sounds darn easy right ? Anyways , i'm gonna make it HARD
  10. [quote name='timothyngim' date='21 August 2010 - 11:46 PM' timestamp='1282405591' post='588027'] I'm so sorry for the late reply, queenwa. Hopefully you are still there. In your case, it is definitely the second 1 (he does not want to hurt your feelings) however, if your bf is really a player like what you found out, then it may be a combination of both. (he doesn't want to hurt you but he also wants you as his backup, thats what I'm afraid) Normally if the guy is the [u]dumper[/u], it would be second situation (dun wan to hurt the girl's feeling) If the guy is the [u]dumpee[/u], then it would be the first 1. Mind if I share with you my personal experience?[/quote] It's okay dun worry. I knew he is a player, but compare to other Exs, he actually bring me to meet his best friends , cousins ,some very close fren's family and family - include aunties and uncles , grandpa and grandma . yeah ,you can share your personal experience , i would like to hear [quote]Thanks for the appreciation. I just like to help my friends, and at the same time, make new friends everywhere, including on MYB. Maybe I can introduce to them if they are here, or you can "visit" them also, people here like ti@, YurnSernLang and loveholic (alot inactive ady) Sadly, alot of my friends seem to have "high turnover". That is after awhile, is like all also become busy, become more like "hi-bye fren only" (you can see my other post, just like I mentioned earlier about their inactivity) If you want to let go of your bf/reducethe hurt, here is a good place to come. Last time there is a chatbox at the bottom where you can shout out/chat with multiple people. As of 2010 however, the admins made changes and revamped the whole forum. So how's ur new guys? Do you have a new bf now or are you still "single"? Or in your heart do you still feel sad that he's no longer wanting you? Hope can hear from you soon. ~timothyngim~ [/quote] yeah,after i become ' single ' , i think there were 3 guys like me. But 1 of them stops suddenly , and another guy was rich but he is a malay (i dont mind yet actually) and i don't have feelings for him. So,the last 1 was the one that i 'm falling soon , but not as deep as last time. This guy admits that he was a player too last time, but i can see that he loves his ex a lot. He still keep her as ' favourite ' in his facebook in his iphone. But he wasn't as rich as the guy before that (the one i mention just now),but wasn't as poor as my ex. He told me is the time about for him to find someone to be serious (he told me before he likes me ,when we are just friends) but the bad things of him is , he wasn't the type of guy that i like , he always angry easily just becos i late reply him or didnt reply his msg or pm. I never see a guy like him , who likes to merajuk also -.- Although sometimes i like this guy , but i still miss my ex alot. He still didnt contact me , and i wonder does he still miss me or something. It's about 1 month and a half since we broke up. And now i don't know whether i should start off a new relationship or continue with my ex if possible. I don't really love the new guy yet , but i'm kind of like him , we were really close recently. Recently i was quite piss at my ex because last time he has 2 albums of ns photos , 1 of them is ns outing. He deleted both ns albums and non of his photo in FB is about NS .(both albums have my pictures) But i didnt see him delete the very very old album even he break up with his ex already . what does that mean - for ur opinion ? thank you , see ya soon
  11. [quote name='timothyngim' date='16 August 2010 - 12:31 PM' timestamp='1281933080' post='587747'] Yes I understand. I was clingy too to my first ex after she just ended the relationship abruptly. Normally the dumpee is cligy to the dumper. Just out of curiosity, what is his reaction? Does he like it? Or hate it? Or just "normal"? (lukewarm, neither hot nor cold) Oh, SORRY queenwa, can you please forgive me? really didn't mean to offend you. If he is a player like you say, then please[b] be careful[/b] as he may want you as a "backup". (Do you get what I mean?) That is my worry. But if he is not, then, maybe he just wants a break. You can refer to my first posting. Here, you can refer to my first posting also, but I would also like to add another thing. I think he is not over you yet, queenwa. He still wants you in his life/you still have a place in his heart (just like you have your friends in your heart too) but now its more like "downgraded", he doesn't want you as the main priority. Means like if in the past, you were his "main office" in his heart, now u r just "contact list", same level as all his other friends. (hope you understand, sorry if I'm harsh) ANyway, just out of curiosity, how did you meet him? What izzit about him that you love him so much about? Sorry ya, 8gua abit [/quote] Haha seriously nice to talk with u , thank you being a nice fren (: and those opinions (: I started to move on and date new guy .But I found out that I still miss him more Maybe because he is my first love, we did many things which are first to me, that's why i love him and miss him alot. He told me even he has many ex-girlfriends before but he was serious to some of them (those at the back,the recent 1), he said he is the one got dumped and he feels very sad. Even he is a playboy , or even Bad boy as in always clubbing, flirty ,shisha , take weed ,do many crazy stuff , but he is very good to his parents. He respects his parents a lot ,he say thanks to his parents every single time after dinner when we eat outside .Because his parents got to pay. Sometimes he and his bro will rather buy drinks outside than order from the restaurant,because he said can save money. He thought me to respects parents, save money , and many things that i never learn in my life before. I knew him from NS (: i knew him in the camp , for abt 3 months then we couple, That is why we break up so early too , cos i dunno him well yet , he also duno me well yet . Alot of memories of me and him in the ns camp ,and i get to see him everyday . Which is very sweet for me (: so may i ask something again , as a guy , if you wanna stay friends with the ex gf , [u]usually [/u]they were not over the gf yet , or just dun want to hurt the girl's feeling ?
  12. [quote name='timothyngim' date='12 August 2010 - 02:32 PM' timestamp='1281594747' post='587592'] Sorry for the late reply, bcos I just started work and so busy with training, but I was kinda worried about your situation, thats why send the "short" notification. Actually the way you treat ur bf is really good, queenwa, which is why many guys start to like you, and which is also why i feel sad for you: 2 years ago, (around end 2008) I was in a relationship like you also, where I did everything for her (my classmate, so even homework also I do for her) In spite of all I did for her, she rejected me after a brief 2 months where I had to do all the calling, initiating (something like what you did). So, being in this position, I understand what you r going through. I even understand why you still have him in your heart, because its like just happen only. 2 months we were "together", because she view it as a "probationary" contract. After 4 months (after the 2 months) she failed her studies and had to leave. I still had her in my heart until just beginning of this year, where I finally let go of her because it was hurting too much, with all the advice and help of my other classmates (who also dun like her) and also because she had another bf whom she claimed "was rich and had his own company" and from how I observed, she was treating him like an atm only, but still, she treated him better than me. So, here I would like to say, you're really a great girl, and really don't deserve that kind of bf, especially if he is a player. Now that you remain as friends, I also understand that you do feel sad (may I say frustrated) that its like "here but not there" where why can't you be back like before, right? I just hope you won't feel too sad when you communicate with him. This is what they say "love someone till it hurts", otherwise, I will cry for you too, because I know how it feels. One thing I'm a little confused though, you say he wont find you or talk to you anymore, but then you say , "He wasn't break up with me because he still wants to be fren with me, as in talk to me." ??? Sorry, I'm a little confused. P.S. You sound a little "clingy". Guys may not like their gfs to be clingy. However, on the other hand, it is your right to be kinda clingy, or else call bf for what. [/quote] Yeah i know i am clingy becos it was my first love and even after a month of break up , i still miss him a lot. i just THINK and FEEL that he won't find or text me anymore, not i SAID . He told me not to break up because he wants to remain as friends. Therefore we are called as ' break ' but not ' break up '. If he says wanna be friends, what does that mean ?
  13. [quote name='timothyngim' date='11 August 2010 - 04:28 PM' timestamp='1281515302' post='587524'] Are you still there, queenwa? How are you? Feeling better anot? [/quote] Yeah of cos i'm still here Yeah i feel so much better right now. There are guys started to like me after i am single. My best fren is encouraging me to find a better guy. Sometimes i like to talk to them ,is nice to chat with them. But, my heart still dun like them , as in date partner or smthin. I still love my ex, a lot. After he told me that he is out of credit in facebook ,tht's y he didnt reply my sms, after that onwards we didn't chat already.His final exam is ending soon so he will be having long break from college. I got the feeling that he won't find me n talk to me anymore. He wasn't break up with me because he still wants to be fren with me, as in talk to me. If he breaks up, he wont talk to me , like ever. So even tough he said it was a break, it is a break up for this relationship.
  14. [quote name='Joukowski' date='06 August 2010 - 03:53 PM' timestamp='1281081212' post='587239'] I think he's playing around with you, think you should do him a favour and give him the break he's asking for. [/quote] i am. we didnt meet each other for about a month edi actually
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