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  • Birthday 02/12/1985

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  1. Thanks again, Joukowski, i didnt tell him bout my conversation wif my bestfren. That's just her opinion. Since im a bit confuse at this state, i need as many feedback from frens and you guys and gals. If not, i'l feel bad bout this. If can, i dun wana any breakup or arguement between me and him. New relationship is just too tiring. From positive side, im comfortable wif him. Maybe i should just focus on that side. Should i ask him to introduce his children to me? Or is it to early..
  2. Thanks for the feedback.. Joukowski, if i were to think with an engineer's mind, i think i already dump him. hehe. But love is blind. Eventhough i scold myself of being stupid, but still here i am. He did mention about marriage. But i dont think im ready for that yet. Not until he is stable and everything is clear. No blur2 matter. Maybe i should give him a chance (Do you think i should give him a chance?). Yeah, during CNY i will definitely packed the unwanted stuff. My fren told me that it would be easier if he dont have children. Cuz they dont have anything to bond them anymore, if u know wat i mean. I wonder why actors/actresses who have been married and divorce many times can deal with this so easily.
  3. i love dancing too.. Always have performances here and there. But that contemp style.. I am not good with hip hop.. No one teach me.. But last year i join a fitness centre. They have lots of dancing class. (latin, latino jam, mtv dance, line dance, and even belly dance). The instructors are hot too. hehe.. They have class for beginners. But now im not a member anymore. Cuz i continue study. Heard they add more dance classes.
  4. yeah i used to have this situation before, since im the only daughter and my bro is the only son. But i'd been to boarding school before so i seldom spent my days at home. Even now, i did my degree at place far away from home. I will only go home once a year. When i was below 20, my parents used to scold me whenever i come back late. And always call me if i wasnt back yet. I dont blame them as nowadays crime is everywhere (rape, kidnap etc). You just have to be patient. You still can go out with your frens. Thats not bad.
  5. eventhough i never met his family yet, but they know my relationship wif him, as he always call his mom and sisters whenever im besides him. Sometimes they call me if they couldnt call him. He is not from a rich family, but he has this thing with his group of frens(concerning money). I know about that. As for my family, im just so so. My family seldom give me money. I have my own money from my training as an engineer. I never tell my family bout any of my bf before cuz waste of time if i juz wif them for less than a year. Since me and him havent reach that period yet so i just keep silent from my family. He always say sorry to me about his lies. i always call him a liar after the confrontation. He's a crybaby, although he is 4 years older than me. And i have this soft heart for crybaby (we seldom see a guy cries rite?) I give him punishment though. Dont make out wif me till we moved from his house, as his ex thingy are still there. He promised me that. and will send back his ex stuff back to her. The thing is we never sit down and talk deeply bout this. I dunno how to do that.
  6. i want to share my story and your opinion on this matter. i met this guy last year in a fitness centre. He worked there as a swimming instructor. and i was the member of the fitness for 6 mths. everynite, i went to the group exercise classes (yoga, dance). He was the one who introduce himself to me first since i never use the swimming pool and just sat besides the pool watching people swimming (i cant swim). Over time, we became close and always have dinner together. One day, he told me he loves me and want me to be his special one. Since i have the same feeling i agreed. I moved to his apartment then. Back then, he had a roomate whom then moved out. Then it just the two of us. The first time i went to his apartment, i told myself , well this is a very fine apartment. ( cuz i think guy's apartment is not that clean, less furniture etc.) Since, i went to the fitness centre a lot, the staff there knows me well, even the Indonesion cleaner. There's this a week where my bf went to his hometown. So im all alone in the apartment and went all alone to the fitness centre. One nite, the Indonesian worker (i called her Kak Su) told me that my bf has already married and has 2 children. The reason he went back to his hometown is because his wife is pregnant. I was shocked but i took that as a joke. At home, I called him and ask about that. He told me Kak Su was just joking, which i dont think so. I asked him if he is already married, he said he's married to me. I asked him if he has children (anak), he told me he has pets (anak kucing, anak kambing etc) in a joking way. Then he assured me that if he was married why would he live in a bachelor's house, it is better to live wif her wife. Well for me, when the guy is not answering a very direct question (yes or no), he is actually lying to me. Then again i decide to not make it as a big scene. But, i didnt trust him much. In his apartment, there's this one room which he never enter and never mention. So I decided to check things out. And guess what, I found woman's clothing in boxes, baby stroller, baby's bed, toys, books belong to a woman, books about childhood, bags containing the same stuff. I found his old resume. In his resume, his maritul status is married and has a child. That resume was written 4 years ago. For months, i keep silent about this matter. I didnt ask him about the room and the stuff i found. Then, i continued my study. I went to his apartment every weekend. Since i stayed in campus, we contacted each other thru phones. and he keep calling every minute like he doesnt trust me here not wif him. He always accused me of having a third person if i dont pick up the phone when he called or didnt reply when he SMSed. I was like OMG give me a break. I didnt do anything wrong and he said all those things to me. I still keep my findings to myself. I asked him why he did that to me. He told me his ex left him for another guy. His ex never returned his calls and SMS. So he dont want me doing the same to him. I slow talk him and said trust is important. Things going well then. I spent my 2 months holiday in his apartment last December. We did stuff together, breakfast, reading newspaper. sometimes i even asked him if there is anything he want to tell me (i want him to confess bout his wife or maybe ex wife).He said, nothing. Oh i forgot to mention, he has already quit his job. I was the one paying for everything. (he's waiting to build a business wif a fren and i dunno when are they gonna start that).Like any other couple, we do have arguement, yelling at each other. Usually i just keep quiet about my findings until one day, when things got very intense and he mention about honesty. That's when my patience's at its limit. I took his ex's credit card in his wallet, and asked him whose card is this and why is it there. He told it was his ex-GF. I asked him 3 times then he told me it was his ex-WIFE and it's there cuz he need to settle his wife's debts. I was like 'cant she pay for that herself??' So for months he lied to me bout this things. and if i didnt confront him, these lies might continue for years. He then confessed that he was married but has divorced. He didnt tell me because he didnt want me to leave him. Should i trust him?? I asked is he really unmarried now. He said yes. There's this one time, he received a call. He took the call outside, at the verandah. Maybe dont want me to listen. Since we have different language, i actually dont understand wat he was talking about.I asked who it was, he said it was from his sister. I checked his phone when he took his shower. It was from his ex, which he saved her name as Mama Adam (Adam is his son's name). Should i trust him? We didnt discuss this matter much. I just dunno wat to ask him.. I read an article about dating a divorcee. But.. still not convince enough. any divorcee here? I need your point of view.
  7. i started wearing make up wen i was 10 yrs old cuz involved in dance competition. But i dunno how to wear make up. Make up artist did all those stuff to my face.. guess i need a make up class.
  8. i have to use pantiliner everyday cause i have white discharge everyday.. is it normal to have white discharge everyday? i am a bit worried but my fren said it was okay.. so i wana ask your opinion...
  9. puss-y fart aa? my ex gv me this article bout this. the article said it because of u r really enjoying it. hoho.. i pee before and after too..
  10. if i were to relate the story with my own, before, i still have a feeling for my ex. eventhough now i have a romantic and caring boyfriend. after some time after the break up, my ex and me still chatting with each other. and everytime he buzz (thru ym) me, i get that excited feeling. My ex always wants to meet me and hang out at the beach or something. At first, i think that was okay. Then again, after thinking of my current boyfriend, i dont think thats fair. and i dont want him to do the same to me. Eventhough i really really want to go out with my ex, i have to hold my own feeling for my own good. cause i know the one who cares much bout me is my boyfriend. in my opinion, you should think from S's point of view, yours and P's. Sorry for saying this, somehow i feel P is kinda selfish.
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