Jump to content

porkupine

Banned
  • Content Count

    88
  • Joined

  • Last visited

Community Reputation

0 Neutral

About porkupine

  • Rank
    Preemie Babe
  • Birthday 11/13/1981

Contact Methods

  • MSN
    porkupine@hotmail.com
  • ICQ
    0
  • Yahoo
    grinface99@yahoo.com

Profile Information

  • Location
    ampang
  1. i oso saw this le hehehe.. u shud c d image ---> EYECREAM GALORE FOR OCT!! ( oh.. it's ICE CREME )
  2. queenie hasn met porkupine mah .. hahaha.. cannot b so bad n generalize one le lolz.. maybe we shud start a topic for wat turns GUYS off as for me : i hate when girls think we have 2 pay 4 everything cos we're guys...
  3. ideal age is when two people feel matured and ready to settle down . sadly i find in malaysia, either sides of extremes: those that settle down super quickly ( due to natural , or forced circumstances ) and those that stay far far away, in search & scurry of materialistic needs.. it needs to be a balance.. when two people find they are ready for that particular NEXT STEP up the ladder in the relationship, then perhaps it would be good it's not easy.. never was, never is.. no one was born to be a parent or a good husband or wife by nature may you all find your ideal ages to get engaged or married
  4. interesting : i like the above post by chkuan : i help u save money and provide FUN for u .. ;P sounds like this myBabe is ready 2 jump on a pole & do some lap dancing for u or something lolz.. anywayz.. on a more serious note : am fred, in kl , (NOT THE ADMIN FRED), and i possibly cud b a host.. just need 2 tinkle me , and see if i can arrange something out i tink this is a cool programme, but to ensure safety / security etc: i tink perhaps we need 2 have more info
  5. am goin away 2 thailand wif momma hehee.. yeah.. is gonna be a massage spree.. ( yes.. guys can enjoy massages too ) anwyayz.. in regards 2 PD : girl : look for those with private beaches, then u dun haf 2 evn worry about pollution / disgusting water ;0 i went to guaman ; nice.. very nice bit pricey, but nice anwyayz.. may all you malaysian babes have a LOVELY raya holiday, with shitloads 2 celebrate, eat, enjoy and most of all : be safe, drive safe, and come back safe ( if u're going anywhere ).. Selamat.. Hari Raya..
  6. there is an excess baggage service from aussie to here, but am not sure if they have one the other way around .. why don't you repack / split the package into smaller quantities of say 5kg * 4 packages, if possible? otherwise , maybe try loooking @ d yellow pages for logistics companies and enquire on their rates? ...
  7. very original designs keep up d good work girl u rockz
  8. many things in life they do, don't have direct necessary meaning.. it's like those reality shows: not all have meaning .. it's all part of ENTERTAINMENT.. meaning if u watch it, it's @ yur own risk of wasting yur time so please people.. OPEN UP!!! u're free to have your comments and opinions, but be fair different people view things differently
  9. agreed.. females r easier to manage.. i am very lucky to have had a SILENT doggie nearly tot she was dumb / mute.. until i play with her outside in d park, then she show off her true talents hahaha.. anwyayz.. small / toy breeds are easier to take care off, and i don't think in mysia, there's much prob. with noise pollution and puppies, unless u're stayin in an all anti-pet neighbourhood however, this doesn't license you to getting a super big dog, or one that barks like all the time babysitting is indeed necessary, and is very important, as the puppy is like a small child. get to know it well, and it will listen, and even communicate with you i was lucky 2 haf a super smart doggie that didn't need much training altho i did haf 2 coax it many a time 2 do d right thing @ d right place.. happy puppying
  10. yeah lor ;( i summore thot it was a place 2 eat porridge lolz.. but anywayz.. i onli ever eat porridge when i'm sick ;P hehehe nyway... gr8 sharing d recipie around
  11. welcome to the world of corporate and business politics it's always a business decision made with its motives in mind.. it must be understood, take the following example.. if YOU owned country A, would you simply give place to a foreign company without mutual benefit, or benefitting yourself? would you let a FOREIGN company enter your country, set up a big plant/place, and ONLY hire japanese talent? what about increasing the local employment percentage? no benefit there would it ? take thailand for example : big manufacturing companies are present there, and they HIRE local THAI staff.. wanna know that real funny secret of it all ? they are paid super low wages. & the government sponsors almost 50% of that! ... now think about it.. the issue above is about japanese companies being present in USA, not taking in their own staff: is this but a LOW percentage? is this really true? is this really proven statistics, or is it all stemmed from someone of japanese origin who wasn't employed, that's trying to stir something up ? ps : EVEN in malaysia, japanese companies only hire very FEW jap ppl, and they usually sit on top. It's not only a very logical business decision, but one that benefits and affects d entire organization: don't believe me ? think about this example: why issit that when you start a company in malaysia, you need a bumiputera to have share / be one of the directors ? ... issit cos the government is selfish? or issit looking out for itself & its people ? .. another example : wud it be easier if you were runinng let's say a WESTERN food stall, and instead of hiring local MALAY/CHINESE/INDIAN people, you paid WESTERN people to do the job? a) the pay is super UNAFFORDABLE to pay western people ( trust me, where they are, they have LOCAL wage rates, ours are like stupid and nothing to them...) there's not PR RELATION when you get westerners to serve within the local community.. it's like we're not patronizing our own workforce, but hiring externally. c) you make people get the sense that doing business with you is very exquisite.. so you only end up with a small market. so : when you actually HAVE worked, for a sufficient time, and you UNDERSTAND many causes of alot of things, you open up. Japanese company being evil to Japanese? LAUGH OUT LOUD.. what about LOCAL/CHINESE/ASIAN restaurants EVERYWHERE around the world paying shit low wages to CHINESE/ASIAN people, and get away with that.. why don't you see the chinese people complaining? true example : australia : CHINESE/ASIAN RESTAURANT wage for chinese/asian worker : without tax / under-table : 8bux per hr. + 1 meal, in return must wash toilet or do something in return for that one meal. OR work 6-12pm , for 45 bux = equates to 7.5 bux per hr .. market job: under an australian wage for ANY worker, without discrimination : without tax / under-table : 12bux per hr market job: under an australian wage for ANY worker, without discrimination : with tax : 16bux per hr OR based on wage rate scheme set by government ( after tax : is about 12+ ) & contribution to something similar to EPF.. now think about it .. what in the world is fair??? hahahhaa... there's no free lunch in this world.. that's for sure.. learn, live, learn , apply, LIVE!! laugh..
  12. from a professional's point of view ( waaa.. belagak betulnya ku..) i'd say that the MOST important thing is to MAKE SUPER SURE she doesn't fall into any of those scams / traps / phony businesses/investments & loans.. this is because there are MANY people that fall into those traps, due to tough circumstances like these. It's never easy. in malaysia, the wage level is atrociously low, and the standards of living are increasing @ a dramatic rate, so quickly that it makes the word inflation seem like a meagre thing. So : that's advice numero UNO : ENSURE / PERSUADE/KEEP CONSTANT CONTACT & REMIND HER never to fall for those stupid traps/ bomohs/sifus & funky ways of making quick money. that NEVER EVER happens i don't think we have enough information : you mentioned she lost alot of money due to her husband's business.. this in itself is too vague for us to understand the entire situation to give a NEUTRAL advice.. nevertheless, moving on : i think that yeah, they perhaps need to think of COST saving techniques : such as appropriate grocery shopping, perhaps working out a CARPOOL or tumpang neighbours/friends car to school, or even taking public transport 2 work n stuff like that.. also cut down on expenses such as purchases n unnecessary stuff.. it's a tough time to go through, but she must do it. & also be able to juggle / discuss MATURELY with the family in regards to the seriousness of the situation. c) most important advice : pray pray pray. doesn't matter wat religion she's in she's gotta do it . we all find tests / challenges & difficult times in life. these are NOT because sum1 up there ( or downstairs ) doesn't like you. it's because you jus gotta face it HEAD ON and PROVE you're worth being a human being. d) another piece of VERY important advice : stick with close & good friends there's nothing more than good friends in times like these that help "victims" to pull through. SO : my advice to you very simple.. just stay close, ( but keep your distance.. no one enjoys someone breathing down their necks ;P ) , comfort her as you see fit, perhaps offer her your assistance in anyway, but DON'T overdo. some people get the misunderstanding impression that you sympathize them rather than empathize.. i hope that things do go well for your friend, and i know many cases where families struggle to survive over a quick buck or two.. it's not easy, but i've even seen families of three that pull through over 600/mnth pay... so .. i've seen even more suprising cases! may your friend find the relief to her suffering, and find happiness...
  13. porkupines' lucky.. i eat anything n i wun grow fat.. ( but i'm a guy of course haha...) i have actually asked this question in regards 2 puttin on weight for girls.. the answers simple : we can't really tell.. there are a number of factors involved: metabolism, food intake, time of food intake, surrounding conditions , even the life conditions are important too. . some people notice putting on weight when during stressed periods,some grow slim instead. some people grow fat during winter periods, others the other way.. fact is : vegetarianism CAN help, but if it's in your blood ( literally ), no matter what you do, u'll put on weight.. --> laughingly -- porkupine points @ the possibility that happiness makes the belly bigger : ie , either yur bf / gf is doing a good job taking care of u , or u're just enjoying a good life hehehe.. but on a serious note : i think that a good dose of exercise DAILY, ( esp . something like SKIPPING which sadly loads of people undermine to be kiddies stuff), and a good watch on your diet & time of intake, would sort your problem out also : watch out for carb filled foods like potatoes n cream stuff happy eating!!!
  14. when a girl asks u to be friends : it's just a very polite way ... honest.. i don't think girls enjoy the process of breaking up just as much as guys would, ( if they were really in love ... which is obviously rather rare these days.. ) but however there are many a time, i've seen.. especially in malaysia , that guys & girls alike, do break up with motives of being friends, possibly because they are scared of what they are going to face.. it's not so much of being a support or backup stick as mentioned in previous replies, but more of because of the culture and the environment, usually , guys & girls lean on each other for support until they find a better / next partner . Indeed it's really difficult to let go for some, and maybe that's the case in this situation? perhaps she really still cares n loves you, but she knows you two just can't work it out.. maybe its fault on her part, or yours.. we all won't know the real situation and we as observers can't really do much more than help listen and perhaps suggest our own views on the matter.. hope u get over this and hope u continue loving
×
×
  • Create New...