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jael

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  1. Pregnant or not at 20, 19, 18, 17 or even 16, it is the girl's right to choose whether she wants to keep the baby or go for abortion. There is no right or wrong. Even though i know it is wrong to be pregnant when u'r barely mature enough of taking care of urself. From my previous post, I've gone through it. IT iS NOT EASY. U have to be strong enough to face lots of negative words by ppl. Teen pregnancy is controversial here... I wish Malaysia have more avenue for young girls who r pregnant to share their stories.. So far for me, everything is going alright. My husband even encouraged me to continue with my tertiary edu, but I don't want to right now..... My baby is only 6months old.. SO to all the girls out there who fall into this teen pregnancy statistics, it is not the end of the world. Stay strong..
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    what eyeliners i've tried before? Let me list it.... Maybelline unstoppable (pencil), DiOr (khol), Revlon liquid liner n pencil, Mac fluidline.. The worst is DIor's liner. Smudged like hell. SO far i have not found a liner that does not smudged on me. Even though Mac gel liner received a lot of good reviews, for me it's just average. SMudged too, but still can tolerate. I'm interested to try Kate's and Bobbi.............
  3. when i was about to deliver, my weight was 68kg. Terrible. I never weighed so much in my life.. actually my 1st pregnancy even worse, 70kg. Now talk abt my 2nd pregnancy.. which is just 6 months ago after i delivered my boy. 1 month after my baby was born, i was 58kg. drop 10kg. Then now my baby ad 6months. I'm 48kg. But i still wanna shed 3 more kgs. I think maybe stress can contribute to weight loss... big time stress about my in-laws. I don't work. I'mma stay at home mama. And i love food. I love chocolate, cheese cakes, dairy stuff......... I binge so much when i was pregger. But after i delivered my baby, i control my diet lo. During my confinement month, my confinement lady dunno how to cook wan............. sucks big time. I ate Jacob crackers n milo for breakfast, lunch: fried rice, dinner: 1 lauk n 1 plate of rice. I wanted to try Herbal life at first, but i don't want to waste money... SO I ate less. More fruits, soup, granole bars. I know it's not easy to lose weight, a lot of discipline and patience are imprtant. To all da mamas out there, don't think of losing weight only. Think of the health benefits of losing weight by eating heathily......... for the sake of our beloved babies
  4. well i have been in ur situation too. But i'm not sure whether u really are preggie. I'll still share my experience though. I was only 18 when i gave birth to my son. Actually i found out i was preggy when i was studyin in college. I thought what the f***... I was so scared, my whole life is ruined. Nevertheless, i still wanted to keep my baby. I dunno whether it was the best thing or not. Well my parents were dissapointed as expected, but they were supportive of my decision to keep my baby. It was really hard at first, you know, ppl don't expect u to have baby at such a young age.. It was really depressing for me. I just had to bear with it.. Finally came my big day, the day my son was born. Labour ain't easy. Pain pain pain. BUt when i saw my son for the first time (still covering in blood)... I felt that was the best thing that ever happened to me. IT was such a joy. Many may think that i'm stupid for keeping my baby.. but i just chose what i thought was the right decision at that moment. To keep my baby. I can only tell u my share of story. Ultimately it's ur decision whether u want the baby or not.
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