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she has already given me an answer.... the answer is NO.... she says that she prefers us to remain as frens..... so do u all think i should give up now?

tks to everyone for the advise.... on valentines, we did not meet up as she went to her friend's house party (she has already told me earlier abt it) and i could only give her the gift i bought for her the next day.... she asked me not to waste money... she still has not given me an answer but we can still hang out well... still very close... no signs of avoiding... but i guess that she dun wan to spend valetines day with me is not a good sign... i am now waiting for her to ask me out again... hopefully the next time we go out i'll get an answer....

many things have happened during the past 2 weeks.... let me cut it short here... last night, when we met up.... we suddenly, somehow, got into this relationship topic again.... she told me again that she likes me and she did consider me many times but she does not have the confidence that our relationship will be as good as now if we become a couple... she is afraid that it will turn out to be dull or sour.... she asked me to convince her that the relationship will be a happy and lasting one.... i tried my best and in the end she told me she will consider... i told her to consider 1 last time as i do not want to ask her again.... she will let me know in a few days time... after that, i asked her whether i could hold her hand..... i requested for 5 mins... and she agreed... in the end we held hands in the car for 15 mins.... so what do u all think? i know that i could hold her hand means i got good chance (she told me i'm only the 2nd guy to do so)... but i'm afraid that it will end up as a 'no' again....

may i ask u one thing.... do u know whether r there any other guys after her?

hey bro tks for the reply the prob is now i am very confused i do not like the way she is treating me n my fren it is getting complicated i'm thinking of pulling out this time but at the moment i cant do so cos i really like her

new twist of events here... for the past week, she has been very cold towards me... her smses r short and everytime i ask her out she will say that she has assignments.. well, i found out that she actually went out with another guy, which was my friend... she also went to my friend's house to do her assignment until very late at night... this friend of mine went after her initially.... but he got rejected and pulled out... then only i started to go after her... well it is darn complicated... it is very clear that she is giving a chance to my fren now and i duno wat i did until she is suddenly cold towards me.... my fren had given up actually but she is pulling my friend in again... i'm very heartbroken when i found out abt this.... what do u all think? what shud i do? how shud i face her? wait or give up now?

dude, maybe u should try to tell her face to face... at least you can see her expressions... then u'll have a clearer picture on what she is thinking...confessing tru sms or phone calls is not sincere enough.... but maybe only tell her when the mood and feel is right... give her some breathing space first for now...

what greekgod say is very right... i'm in a similar situation as you... the ideal situation is for us to be cool.... but i know it is a bit hard.... if u do want to test her, maybe u can try ignoring her for a few days... like dun call or sms her.... i try to do that but i cant... haha... so gd luck buddy!

tks for the advise... so did u avoid this guy? how did u reject him? u still go out with him (as in just the both of u)?

Means wait for some hints? Sometimes i'm so frustrated cos she does not reject me completely. She is still giving me hope. Sometimes it might be better if she says a straight no...

yes i'm very sincere, she did ask me whether i am serious anot... cos she is afraid that i'm fooling around... so u all think that i should cont to remain as frens? and not to mention abt it again...?

hi, recently i got to know a girl and it has already been 4 months. I only got close to her the last 1.5 months and i already have feelings for her. I could feel that she was the one who tried to get close to me at first. After going out with her for the first time, I asked her whether she could be my gf and she said that we only got close to each other for a month. So I accepted that and i was wrong to ask her that question so soon. After that incident, she did not avoid me and we got closer, going out numerous times, sometimes in a gang, sometimes just the both of us. Hence, 2 weeks later (Jan 7) i popped up with the same question. She said the same thing but she told me more this time. She even told me that she is not ready to start a relationship as she has some bad experience from her ex. She has been single for almost 2 years. I accepted that and we continued to go out after that day. Last week, she asked me out as she was very unhappy. After listening to her problems, I suddenly took the chance to ask her again. She told me she has feelings for me but she is not ready yet. She also told me that she is not playing around with me. What do you all think? What is she thinking? It is a form of rejection or she is just not ready yet? What should I do now? Do you all think that getting close to each other for about 1.5 months is too soon to start a relationship?

i do hope to try again and not to give up... but it seems that i do not have a chance now... i could feel it... and i dun wan to have the feeling of getting rejected again... sad case... btw, anyone planning anything special for their loved ones on 7th July 07? or should i start a new thread for this...

i do hope to try again and not to give up... but it seems that i do not have a chance now... i could feel it... and i dun wan to have the feeling of getting rejected again... sad case... btw, anyone planning anything special for their loved ones on 7th July 07? or should i start a new thread for this...

i do hope to try again and not to give up... but it seems that i do not have a chance now... i could feel it... and i dun wan to have the feeling of getting rejected again... sad case... btw, anyone planning anything special for their loved ones on 7th July 07? or should i start a new thread for this...

you got a point there... well, she rejected me cause she say she has someone else in mind....

actually i've already brought her out for lunch that lasted for about 2 hours but nothing happened... it was to celebrate her bday... well, i got rejected by her about 2 months ago but i'm still not giving up at the moment... most ppl seem to think that the flowers are not important... you all do have a point there... hmm...

Hi People, I plan to confess to the girl I like soon. I plan to give her some flowers when I do so. I've checked some other topics previously and from what I've read, I should be giving her red tulips right? and is 3 enough? and how much does it cost? Sorry, I'm a noob. Thanks in advance.